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anthonyj118

23 / M / Straight / Single

Sunnyvale, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:00pm
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I recently graduated from college where I majored in finger-painting with a minor in economics.

Why finger-painting? The money. Don't judge.

I want 20, no...25 kids. No bullshit: I literally want to raise my own tribe.

I was born and raised in Seattle, went to school on the east coast and now I'm working in Palo Alto. My hobbies include taking long walks on the beach, blowing bubbles in the park and nursing sick baby seals back to health.

When I’m not saving baby seals, I enjoy being outdoors (hiking, biking…) and I’ll read anything I can get my hands on. Oh yeah, and I like to dance…and sing (kind of). I mean, I can’t really sing, but there are few things better than getting a huge group of friends together in order to drunkenly sing ‘90s/early 2000s songs at a karaoke bar. If you haven’t belted the lyrics to “Tearin’ up my heart” or “Larger than Life” in a drunken stupor, then you really haven’t lived
What I’m doing with my life
I plan to work for a few years and then I'll pursue graduate study (a joint MBA - MA [international relations] program).

But at the moment, I'm the operations manager at a digital media consulting startup that specializes in wine/craft beer. I get a lot of questions about this, so I'll clarify a few things...

Yes, I like wine/craft beer. And...yes, attending wine/beer tastings across the country is one of the things that I get paid to do. And...yes, during the summer I managed to organize a series of private wine tastings in the Santa Cruz mountains for me and my friends.
I’m really good at
Drawing stick figures. Peeling bananas. Dancing. Holding eye contact. Swapping stories. Singing in the shower. Cooking instant oatmeal and cup-o-noodles. Letters are hard, but I'm pretty good with numbers.
The first things people usually notice about me
My knee-caps...I hate to brag, but I have really nice knee-caps
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: East of Eden; 1984; Team of Rivals; God, Globalization & the War on Terror; Malcolm Gladwell's stuff; Jhumpa Lahiri's stuff (especially Unaccustomed Earth); Harold Bloom's stuff; Going Clear: Scientology, Hollywood and the Prison of Belief; I just started reading A Song of Fire and Ice

Movies: Pulp Fiction; The Lord of the Rings Trilogy; The Matrix (the FIRST one); The Truman Show; Requiem for a Dream; Black Swan; The Hurt Locker; The School of Rock; The Godfather I & II; Fight Club; Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; Wedding Crashers; Anchorman

Shows: I don't always watch television, but when I do, it's always...Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Louie, Arrested Development, Battlestar Galactica, Homeland

Music: Bon Iver, Stevie Wonder, Marvin Gaye, Common, Drake, Kanye West, The Who, Rolling Stones, Michael Jackson, Massive Attack, Avicii, Frank Ocean, Swedish House Mafia

Food: If you don't like broccoli, that's a dealbreaker
The six things I could never do without
Mangoes
Spotify
My lucky sweatshirt
Google Maps
Pillows (no joke, i have 5 pillows on my bed)
Broccoli
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to learn more. The cycle of self-assessment and self-improvement is critically important to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
chilling with close friends, pairing good conversation with good wine
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Umm...I don't know how to say this, but...I'm black. I don't think I'm ready for the world to know, so I'd appreciate it if you could keep this highly confidential information to yourself. Thanks.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
For a lot of girls, trying to exchange messages with guys on OkCupid is like trying to sip water from a fire hydrant.

So let's be real here, you're a girl on OkC...you're not going to message me first. It's a nice thought, though.