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47 M Tallahassee, FL

My Details

Last Online
Jan 15
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm a professor and I love to cook and dine out. I love hanging out with friends. I'm not huge on the club scene, though every once in a while I get an itch.

I am at a point of transition and looking for that guy to spend the rest of my life with. So many people have come into my life, most leaving handprints on my heart, a few leaving scars. But they have all made me who I am. I want to find the partner who will contribute toward who I am going to be. Experiencing the world with another person is one my greatest joys. I want to see things not through my eyes, or through his eyes, but through our eyes. It is so much more fulfilling and amazing that way.

One great joy is entertaining friends, usually when I am cooking a meal and my partner is helping get the presentation perfect. I am a pretty darn good cook, often recreating meals I've enjoyed at a restaurant. Though I am not a baker. Baking requires precision and following a recipe. I use recipes for inspiration, but cook with my senses of sight, smell, and taste.

I tend to be attracted to an all-American look. Smiles make me melt. A full head of hair and toned body are great too. But mostly it is positive energy (youthful energy) that attracts me. I can be moody like anyone, but positive energy usually keeps me positive. I'm not bubbly, but I tend to see the best in everyone. Sometimes I get steamrolled because of that, but I remain positive.

I don't mean to be rude, but please have a picture of your face in your profile. Not one covered in a hat and/or sunglasses, but your face. Eyes are the windows to the soul and I like looking at them. Everyone is attractive in one way or the other...unless they cover their beauty up.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm improving every day. I love getting feedback. It's hard to hear but great for making me better and stronger. I am on a journey, and since I am on this site, I know I am at a crossroads. That's a little scary. But it is also extremely exciting.
The first things people usually notice about me
iPhone - I use it too much.
Smile - I don't use it enough.
Sarcasm - I find it useful
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Whatever I grab (well, now download). I'm lame and read on the elliptical at the gym. Movies: The companionship at the movies matters a lot more than the movies themselves. Music: Pop. Top 20. The Pulse. BPM
The six things I could never do without
Something to keep me occupied.
A hunt for a sixth thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That damn sixth thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking and dining with friends. Either I cook or we go out. Either way is a joy for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Vers/btm. Sorry. I know it's not a hookup site, but I feel that it's relevant for someone to know for the future. Oh...and I dye my hair and beard...I do that for me!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 29–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You can say something witty. I realize that's a bit of throwing down a challenge, but I like to smile.