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55 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 47-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 9
Black, Hispanic / Latin
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an explorer and curious about the world. Fun loving, faith grounded, culturally stimulated, foodie, dance and sports enthusiast seeks the same. Must know how to laugh, care about family, be concerned about the rest of humanity and live life fully.

You will find me equally comfortable doing yoga, dancing disco or salsa, and cheering for the Bears or the Bulls (I am that weird breed who roots for both the Sox and the Cubs and I know enough about the Hawks to make me dangerous) as I am enjoying the opera or symphony.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing and interviewing people for my book that should spark some discussion...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping others laugh and relax.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile or my eyes since I tend to share both.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love mystery and suspense novels in the genre of Ludlom and Grisham. I have an addiction for buying books on foreign affairs after hearing authors speak and then reading them by osmosis from the shelf. The Bible is my favorite guide book.

Any movie is a good movie in my book, but I am afraid of horror movies. I prefer action flicks, foreign films, life documentaries, and comedies/love stories. Everyone needs to laugh and be inspired once in awhile!

Named after the patron saint of music, I love all music but am partial to disco, salsa (for their danceability) and jazz (for its improvisational nature). My favorite musical is Phantom of the Opera.

Omnivore is my middle name because I will try all kinds of food. I love to cook and to eat ethnic foods and explore how we do varieties on a theme. Chinese and sushi are my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
I include friends here because blood and extended family support allows me to be who I am.

2. Food
I am a true foodie who eats to live but mostly lives to eat!

3. Faith
I love exploring my faith and learning how others explore their's. Often I spend time in interfaith work because as someone who believes God is supreme, I figure God can determine how to reach others.

4. Dancing
Music was made to make us move!

5. Laughter
I spend a lot of my time laughing at myself and at the world.

6. Conversation
I love being with kindred spirits who can share their perspectives and are open to learning others.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How similar we all are despite all of our differences. We all want our basic needs met, our thoughts and dreams respected, and the ability to love and be loved by those we choose to have in our lives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting together with friends for dinner or drinks and perhaps a movie or relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I am not as intimidating as I may seem...
You should message me if
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You are up for adventure and want a companion to enjoy the journey.

You are intellectually curious and open to other perspectives yet stand firm on your convictions.

You bring something new to share so I can expand my horizons!