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51 San Bernardino, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:32am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Virginia girl in a California world.

Can you identify the following people: Steve Irwin, Andrew Lloyd Webber, Anita Blake, M. Night Shmaylan?

I'm looking for "Mr. Right" not "Mr. Right Now." If you're into 'hooking up', one night stands, or friends with benefits, I am Not the one for you.

Smoking is one of my few deal breakers. Also, I am Not 420 compatible, not even if you only smoke a little.

A friend of mine describes me as needing a slightly feral wolf. When I asked her what she meant she said, "someone strong enough to lean on who is also secure enough in himself to let you stand on your own two feet."

"Destroy your personal demons, use their corpses as fuel to light your way." -Laurell K. Hamilton

I have family and friends in the LGBT community. It's not who I am, but I will fight for their rights to be who they were born to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a Special Education teacher at the the elementary school level and I have four grandchildren that live close enough for me to spoil.
I lived in San Diego for six years and love driving down to visit the Zoo or the Zoo's Safari Park. Want to join me?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
"never give up, never surrender"

When I face a challenge, I do my best to be successful. Give 100% or don't bother.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love to laugh, and I get the most compliments on my smile because its always close to the surface. My friends say I have a twisted sense of humor, sometimes slightly sarcastic, which is good because so do they.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite authors are Laurel K. Hamilton, Christine Feehan, Lyndsay Sands and Sherrilyn Kenyon. The last three are paranormal romance writers. The first one, well, Anita Blake is a strong female character. Books and movies where women wait around to be rescued tend to irritate me. I like Science Fiction, but I'm not over the top about it. My current favorite movie is "San Andreas". The graphics of the earthquake as the helicopter goes over are great. "Jurassic World!" Was hella awrsome! I loved what seemed to me to be references to other movies. I love ghost shows: Dead Files, Ghost Hunters, Deep South Paranormal etc. I like musicals - on DVD or live. I love scary movies, partly as an excuse to hide against someone during the scary parts. Hey, those were my favorite dates as a teenager and I still think they're the best.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, my sense of humor, all my books, photographs of my family, my cat, my sense of humor... wait...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what kind of trouble I'm going to get into this weekend... and who I'm going to get into trouble with...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Is there such a thing as a typical Friday night? I might be watching B movies with friends, or maybe curled up with a good book, or I might be getting some sleep due to an early hike in the morning, or I might be having fun with my kids or grandkids or I may even be over at my older daughter's for a BBQ or my frienda and I could be on our OKCUPID accounts looking at your profile. Lol Typical? Why be typical!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmmm, I still blush as badly as I did when I was 16. Then again, that's not very private since the blush is pretty obvious in person. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a Non-smoker and can handle a woman who can fight her own dragons but needs a partner to watch for the snakes sneaking up from behind and slay eight-legged freaks - and liking "B" movies is a definite plus.