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50 F San Bernardino, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I admit it. I'm a bit of a geek. Hanging out with friends and watching bad (really bad!) B scifi type movies is, to me, a great way to spend an evening. Lots of laughter and one-liners to throw out later. I'd love to find someone that I could share that kind of thing with.

I'm looking for "Mr. Right" not "Mr. Right Now." A friend of mine describes me as needing a slightly feral wolf who will still respect me and consider me an equal. She may just be right. I believe that the most important thing anyone can give you is their time. When they give you time, they are giving you a piece of their life that they will never get back.

"Destroy your personal demons, use their corpses as fuel to light your way." -Laurell K. Hamilton

I'm not always "On-line," I just have the mobile app.

I have family and friends in the LGBT community. It's not who I am, but I will fight for their rights to be who they were born to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a Special Education teacher at the the elementary school level and I have four grandchildren that I love to spoil. I enjoy hiking and I'm amazed by the beauty of the Inland Empire. I lived in San Diego for six years and love driving down to visit the Zoo or the Zoo's Safari Park.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
"never give up, never surrender"

When I face a challenge, I do my best to be successful. Give 100% or don't.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love to laugh, and I get the most compliments on my smile because its always close to the surface. My friends say I have a twisted sense of humor, sometimes slightly sarcastic, which is good because so do they.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite authors are Laurel K. Hamilton, Christine Feehan, Lyndsay Sands and Sherrilyn Kenyon. The last three are paranormal romance writers. The first one, well, Anita Blake is a strong female character. Books and movies where women wait around to be rescued tend to irritate me. I like Science Fiction, but I'm not over the top about it. My current favorite movie is "Eat, Pray, Love" though "Pacific Rim" is a close second. I love ghost shows: Dead Files, Ghost Hunters, Deep South Paranormal etc. I like musicals - on DVD or live. I love scary movies, partly as an excuse to hide against someone during the scary parts. Hey, those were my favorite dates as a teenager and I still think they're the best.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, my sense of humor, all my books, photographs of my family, my cat, my sense of humor... wait...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what kind of trouble I'm going to get into this weekend... and who I'm going to get into trouble with...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Is there such a thing as a typical Friday night? I might be watching B movies with friends, or maybe curled up with a good book, or I might be getting some sleep due to an early hike in the morning, or I might be having fun with my kids or grandkids or I may even be over at my older daughter's for a BBQ. Typical? Why be typical!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmmm, I still blush as badly as I did when I was 16. Then again, that's not very private since the blush is pretty obvious in person. :)
You should message me if
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You are a Non-smoker and can handle a woman who can fight her own dragons but needs a partner to watch for the snakes sneaking up from behind - and liking "B" movies is a definite plus.