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30 Florence, MA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 11
Straight, Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love life, the present, sharing new experiences and seeing things from new perspectives. I would like nothing more than to listen to people's stories, even when you think they're boring. I just love listening to people talk.

I'm pretty big into climbing. As much as three days per week. It's a phenomenal form of exercise, a great social activity and sometimes even meditation all rolled into one!

I am candid, energetic, rational, and creative. I like to be in the moment and I would love to just spend time and share stories! I'm somewhere between an ESTJ and an ENTJ. (Good summary here if you've ever been interested:

I'm in a very stable marriage with DasypodisHyrax but would love to meet you :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a manufacturing engineer and I work on a very technical and very interesting product that improves the quality of life of many people struggling with many different types of disabilities.

I work to afford my mortgage and food, but more importantly it affords the finer things like Dragon*Con, PAX, gaming, costuming, and the joy that cosplay brings to others.

For the last several years I have been an ACA-certified whitewater kayak instructor. It helped me learn that teaching and coaching are really rewarding. Coaching in climbing is something I find myself doing often. Maybe I'll be a teacher some day...

I have a part time passion for designing adaptive sports equipment and I've been trying to find the time to do some volunteer design work for Able Gamers, an advocacy group for accessibility in games.

Life is kind of busy, I guess. But busy is good!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm an engineer and an artist and they come together in my costumery and prop-making. I sell DeadMau5 heads on etsy at my store:

and I'm pretty serious with costumes when I want to be (check my photos)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I need to meet more new people in person and have them answer this question. *hint*

Maybe my height?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These lists never encompass everything, but I'll take my best shot:

I'm replacing Books with...
Games: Settlers of Catan, Cards Against Humanity, Dominion, Fluxx, Chrononauts, Taboo, Munchkin, (I enjoy almost any board or card game, really); Rock Band/Guitar Hero, Ocarina of Time, all of my Sega Genesis cartridges hooked up to my big screen tv especially Streets of Rage, Mortal Kombat and Lemmings.

Movies: All sorts of different movies. I've been trying to catch up on all of the classics on Netflix. Figuring out why people have always held them in high regard... It has been a wonderful experience.

Music: I have been SUPER into house and dance music lately. Metal music has always held a spot in my heart. Old School, New School, True School rap are all amazing - especially the thought provoking stuff.

TV: I have been watching so much stuff on Netflix streaming. House of Cards, From Dusk Til Dawn, The 100, American Horror Story 1 and 3 - but I don't watch anything on live television except.. well.. Big Brother.. I'm a people watcher. What can I say? :)

Food: Strictly Anything. There's nothing better than the food I have never tried before. Same thing with the story I haven't heard and the person I've never met!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The six things I wouldn't want to do without.


Love and affection


Good food

Good conversation

New ideas
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personal journeys, introverts and extroverts, life balance, climbing, numbers, gender, sexuality, societal structure and cultural socialization.

On a slightly pointed note, why so many people on dating sites can say they "like" someone and then never exchange messages - it's quite perplexing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to find people to spend time with after 9 pm. I'm always wanting to be up, spending time, flirting with, and getting to know people!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have had a one-on-one, fresh-prince-esque dance-off to all 6 minutes of Sugarhill Gang's Apache (Jump On It) with a Pentagon Correspondent.

Think like this:

That song is so much longer than you think it is!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you'd like to talk to a new person and share stories. Especially if you'd like to meet in person and spend some time.

I don't have any problem spending time with people of differing opinions. If we spend time only with people we completely agree with or for whom we have had similar experiences, then it would be very difficult to develop and improve as people, right? :)