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apapin

42 / F / straight / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am a hopeless romantic, giving, and happy.

My Self-Summary

I am a single mom who is passionate about everything I do. I believe that life is what you make it and it is meant to be enjoyed. Although I too have difficulties at times I truly think that you create your own happiness which is why you will usually find me with a smile on my face. Often I am accused of being "up to something" due to the little grin on my face but honestly I am just usually happy.(that's my story and I am stickin to it! lol) But seriously, I think that you have to meet someone and spend time getting to know them to really understand what they are about and with work, kids, home etc. it is difficult for me to find the time to go out and meet new people so I thought I would give this a try.

What I’m doing with my life

Trying my best to raise my children to be loving and productive adults someday. I want them to know what is important in life and what really matters as I think this will arm them with the strength to handle anything life throws at them!

I’m really good at

Making people laugh and smile. I have a very outgoing personality and make friends very easily. Also, I am convinced that smiling is contagious!!! Want to catch it???? lol

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and my eyes, well ok and then there are the legs which are usually visable as I always wear skirts. (yes, as you probably noticed, very girly-girl)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

For books, I like suspense - murder mysteries, you know the ones.....you can't put them down until you are delirious from sleep deprovation and then once you finally do you lay there trying to wrap your mind around the end result! Movies.....but of course chick flicks, I do also enjoy action, comedies, etc. but given I am a hopeless romantic, the smooshy romantic ones are the tops for me. Music..........if it is not twangy country, bang your head rock or vulgar rap.........TURN IT UP!! Food I will eat almost anything besides seafood...... if it swims I don't do it!

The six things I could never do without

1)My great kids! (and my Bichon Frise, LeiLei)
2)Family
3)laughter,love and kindness in this world
4)Passion (and alot of it once I am in a monogamous relationship)
5)My little black dress
6)The many pairs of cute shoes in my closet

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything, I am so ADD!!! j/k (kind of)

On a typical Friday night I am

Either hanging out with my kids (if it is my weekend) just laughing and making memories. If it is not my weekend hanging with friends doing whatever is fun or snuggling on the couch with my very adorable dog.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I do not need someone, I want someone to spend my time and give my love to. I am happiest when I am in a giving, loving relationship.

You should message me if

You are looking for someone to meet that could possibly turn into more if all of the aspects are right. One thing I must add is that I absolutely do not do "one night stands" and am not looking for just a "good time". Well maybe a good long time but it encompasses much more than just causual sex.