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apassarhobe

39 M Barcelona, Spain

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:36am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Catalan (Fluently), Italian (Okay), C++ (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Welcome!,

Hi!

My name is Carles. I'm a Catalan guy, born in Barcelona.

I'm clever, nice, amusing, optimistic, open-minded, respectful, easy-going, good conversation, high cultural level and well travelled.
I like people and enjoy the simple things of life.
I really appreciate friendship, loyalty and honesty. I really dislike selfish, liars and bad people.
I like to have fun, healthy fun, nice conversations, walking, practising sport, computers, writing, reading..

I'm here to meet new friends, may be a lover, or may be love. Friends is just Ok.

I can explain a lot of details about me, but the truth is that only meeting in person we will know if there is connection.
If I had seen in a profile most of the people I really like, probably I would had never meet them. So instead of talking by email a lot, overthinking, etc... I'm an action guy and I meet new people. Then we know how we feel.

Life is short and I think that is important to focus on positive things, into having fun, into creating, flowing and enjoying every detail, rather than wasting the time in fights, destroying, feeling sad and frustrated or looking like everything was wrong.

I was committed in a six years relationship where my partner was alike finding problems everywhere, being mad, fighting... mostly because her insecurities. I was standing there because I loved her, but I was really sad and unhappy. So never again.

I'm learning all the time, as much as I can. And I like people that do their bests and fight for noble causes, or for going forward with their studies, to improve their lives or to help others. I like people that works professionally and I hate people that does a poor quality job by trying to do the less effort, being rude to customers, etcetera...

I prefer to stay away from drug-users. If you are one may be you are very nice person but you will end very bad, and I don't want to see how people self-destruct. There is a positive looking to life, no need to self-inflict pain and suffering and being an addict.

I've travelled to many countries and can understand and speak a bit of many languages.

I love computers, and can talk with people of all the social conditions, and all the ages.

People feel like I'm confident and trustworthy.
I'm a good friend.

I believe that the only acceptable situations are win-win.
I have a bulletproof self-esteem and I'm a self-made person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in Internet projects. I'm very good. I grow Start ups.

I travel often.
In the last 12 months I've been in San Francisco, Dublin, France, London, Hamburg, Edinburgh, London...
After much thinking I've decided to remain in Barcelona.

I study a lot, and go to the gym daily.
I like to meet often my friends and the people that I appreciate and are cool. I go often to bars to work with the laptop and I use to meet new people there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating (Internet projects, programs, books)

Developing code (web, native aps, smartphone apps, c++...)

Making people laugh

Making people feel comfortable and happy

Spending money :)

Understanding people and teaching

Feeling in peace and calm

Listening and giving peace to others
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and my smile.
That I'm honest, trustworthy and a great person.
People feel confident with me, and open to me and share their problems and worries. And I honour their confidence.
As I'm in peace and a positive, smiling person, they always think I'm 25-28. Cool!!.
That I'm clever. Fun. That I'm strong.
They notice that I've a very high self-confidence and that I'm an unique, out of the box, human being.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
CAT: Mecanoscrit del segon origen, Tirant lo Blanc, Contra el vent del nord (Sofie's Verdem - Daniel Glattauer), Bertran, un templari a l'Exili
Self improving/work: The Peter Principle
Novels Eng: The promised princess, 1984, A happy world, Fahrenheit 451, World War Z, 2001 Space Odissey, Ender's Game (trilogy and the Bean's parallel trilogy), Lord of the rings, Wilt saga and many from Tom Sharpe is hilarious.
(and now I want to go walking to the street and have no time to write more) :P

I use to read three or four books at the same time. In good times I use to read 10 books per month.

I disliked the book "el mundo de Sofia" from Jostein Gaarder, about philosophy. I found very had to finish and depressing: "La insoportable leveda del ser" (Nesnesitelná lehkost bytí) from Milan Kundera.
I liked Charles Bukowski at the beginning but finally it was too hateful against women and that was affecting me so I leaved his books.

I love to watch DVD's at the sofa and cinema.
From a year ago I only watch movies in English, so I keep my accent and level high:
Movies:
Martial Arts: The Last Dragon, Perfect Weapon, Jackie Chan's *, Jet Li's *
Romantic/Love/Humour: You've got an email, Fried green tomatoes
Drama/thinking: Will Hunting, Philadelphia, Forrest Gump, The Green Mile, Million Dollar Baby, Slumdog millionaire, American History X, Millenium

Sciencefi: Star Wars*, Star Trek*, Star*, Science Fiction*, Dune
Crazy humor :) : Get over it (així és l'amor), DodgeBall, There's Something About Mary (quelcom passa amb Mary), Balls of fury, Austin Powers, American Pie, Porkis, from Monty Pyton: The knights of the square table, bryan's life
Action and martial arts movies
Action: Die hard, rambo*, rocky*, beautiful boxer (about a transexual Thai boxer)

About lawyers searching the thruth
I love zombie movies too!!. They are fun. And humor + gore too. Fe: Braindead
28 Days Later
Some serie B productions are cool. I love Troma work. Fe: Toxic Avenger is hilarious!. :)

Series:
The young ones, Battlestar Galatica, Manga: arare, Bola de Drac (Dragon ball), Family Guy, The Simpsons, South Park, Futurama

Music: almost everything
Catalan rock, pop, country: Els Pets, Lax'n Busto, Sangtraït, Sau, Mishima, Manel, els Amics de les Arts, Marge d'Error, Tancat per defunció, Tomeu Penya...
American/Canada/English/German rock, pop.
I love Dave Carroll's song: united breaks guitars
Many youtube singers: Miarose, ana free
Techno
Classical
Country. I was in Nashville for a week and it was great!.
I often go a bar in Barcelona to listen live guitar music.

I often listen live music in a charming bar here in Barcelona and I meet singers/authors.

Food:
In general I like all kinds of food. I love Catalan food, Japanese, Irish, Chinese...
I liked kebabs and durum but I saw some hygienic flaws and I'm not having any more.
I really enjoy going to restaurants, and I love very big steaks.
But I think someday I'll go vegetarian, cause I hate animal suffering.
I don't like spicy and Arabian foods that are eaten from a shared dish with the bare hands. I dislike it and I don't like to share a dish or a drink with other people, because diseases are transmitted this way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Myself
Internet
The world or a spaceship to live :)
Freedom
Money
Brain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How things work.
Looking inside.
Improving existing things, inventing new.
The better way to do things, improve.
How lucky I'm and how many good things are in my life.

I also spend many time thinking about how many amazing girls always put their attention on the bad guys, on the assholes, and ignore the good guys.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly I don't enjoy a lot night life. I only go out wgen we party at group.
Is full of drunk people, crazy people or violent, selfish...
I like to meet cool people, so my spectrum of places to go is more those places where we can talk and have a calm, cool night.
I go to friendly pubs where they play live music.
I also enjoy going to restaurant with a cool company.
Any quietly bar is cool with the right company.
If you enjoy that may be we can go together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm not the prototype of menly guy.
I'm mean I'm strong and brave, but also sensitive and caring. And also I'm clever and I like poetry, philosophy...
And it does perfectly fit into my personality. I'm not afraid to admit.
It's cool.

I'm shy inside (although nobody believes it if you're my good friend you will softly notice) and I'll not disclose who lover I'm/was with, or the details of the relation, neither to my closest friends. That's private between her and me. Even if she acted bad.

I tend to see the best of every person.
And when I was a child I studied in a school with separate classes for boys and for girls.
I grow believing that girls were much better than guys. (no violent, no selfish, no feeling sexual desire so intensely...)

These joined, made me suffer a lot with superficial, liar, selfish girls. I was not able to imagine that they were like that, so it was like and horror zombies armageddon movie. But I survived and I learned how to detect and do not allow this girls in.

I enjoy:
- adventures, with good people girls
- true love

I'm not sure if finding true love will happen, but I'm sure I don't want a serious relationship with someone I don't feel as a my soulmate or a super-good human being.

In a girl I would like to find:
- Someone fun
- Trustworthy
- Loyalty
- Confident
- My friend, my best friend
- My partner, my ally
- Smart
- Deep thinking
- Honest
- Niceness
- Innocence inside
- Compassion
- Easy going
- Strength to fight the assholes, and wisdom to differentiate the right ones from the bad ones
- Passion to learn
- Good conversation listening / speaking

I like 20+ girls because I work hard and want to enjoy after and I feel like a young soul and mind, and they are really fun, but I've to admit that often they are trouble.
A friend of mine tells me that the best age is 35+ and may be she is right.

I don't want to set rules as I want the right person, and I'll notice when I know her. If I connect with a wonderful person, let's say 40 y.o., I would be happy to be so lucky. If is a 20 y.o., but is HER, I'll be glad.
Can't program the right person. Only be open to meet. I'll know when I find her.

Honesty is not negotiable.
I don't care if you're shy. The important is that you're good person.

Good looking is a bonus, but irrelevant compared to the other personal attributes.
I would prefer a girl that spends 5 hours studying/reading, rather than one that spends the same time with external things like dressing, make up, etc...
You should message me if
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You want.
OR
You want to have fun.
OR
You are a positive person and want to learn and share things,
OR
You like beer, tea, water xD
OR
You're a supercool person that is sad now and need an honest friend.
OR
If you're a clever girl or gifted that would like to talk to a very clever boy.

Don't write me if you're a psycho or you have a boyfriend or if you hide that you want a boy to tell you nice things but never ever meet him in real life, or if you're a liar, or if you use drugs or you are only looking for sex and don't care about people.