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apassarhobe

39 M Barcelona, Spain

My Details

Last Online
Jul 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Catalan (Fluently), Italian (Okay), C++ (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Welcome!,

Why are you here?.
You may say you look for a great guy, a partner, someone good who makes you smile and laugh a lot, but the truth is that you'll leave and keep looking for good-looking guys even if they're selfish, liars and brainless. Is nature, but be aware of that. I lost much time writing to apparently great girls looking for friendship that never replied just because they are looking for someone hot.
I listen to them, read their profile carefully, and they all told how wonderful they are and how much they want to make new friends, but they never replied.
Lies. Self-lies.
I'm clever, and whereas is cool to have fun, it's important to tell the truth and keep respect for the others. You can have everything without falling to the dark side.

My profile is long, very long, because I like to give details and expose that we will have a lot in common. I you like great guys and don't care about the details you can skip and just have a conversation, I'm very good listening and reasoning, fresh and fun.

If you are looking for a good-looking boy without a brain, please leave immediately. I'm not a toy.

I'm an optimistic, fun, easy-going, and nice person.
I'm clever, always smiling, hard-worker, and I only like to spend time with good people like me.

I would like to meet nice people, have a coffee, a beer, dinner, go listening life music...
I'm a simple person, I enjoy being with nice people, to laugh, to have nice chats, good restaurants (do you like Lambrusco wine?), travels, going to a comic store, a theatre... all activities that are positive and non-destructive are cool.

I love smiles, good time , trustworthy, honest, easy-going people.

Constructive people/doers +, critics -.

And I will always have an smile for a nerd or geek, and a hug for a friend. :)

I'm really a great guy, but you won't trust me cause it's full of liars sons of a bitch and assholes.
And it's better you don't trust anyone because there are very bad people out there.

But when you know me you'll know immediately I'm cool ;)

So it's up to you.

Sóc i parlo Català. I'm Catalan.
Also: Io parlo Italiano. Je parlez Français. Ich spreche ein bisschen Deutsch. Eu falo Português. I talk English as well.

I'm sensible and honest, but I'm a very strong person, brave, with personality. I fight for the right things. And despite the difficulties I always overcome the problems epically. :)

I'm in peace with myself, and people feels good and confident with me very fast and easily. I think it is because I'm transparent and they see I'm honest, nice guy and funny. I have a contagious optimism and a magnetic positiveness.
And I've a strong sense of justice and try to do what is right always.
And I'm a very good friend.
I love I'm sensitive, caring, and surprising.
I study a lot, and I'm always improving. I'm very creative.
I'm educated, patient and respectful. I'm only interested in sharing time with honest cool people. If a super-beautiful girl cross my path but she is selfish, does care others, no way.

I cause good impression from the beginning, but like the good wine that is better with the time, you will enjoy me more and more when you spend more time with me and you discover me. Guaranteed!. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I work in Internet projects. I'm very good. I grow Start ups.

I travel often.
In the last 12 months I've been in San Francisco, Dublin, France, London, Hamburg, Edinburgh, London...
After much thinking I've decided to remain in Barcelona.

I study a lot, and go to the gym daily.
I like to meet often my friends and the people that I appreciate and are cool. I go often to bars to work with the laptop and I use to meet new people there.
I’m really good at
Creating (Internet projects, programs, books)

Developing code (web, native aps, smartphone apps, c++...)

Making people laugh

Making people feel comfortable and happy

Spending money :)

Understanding people and teaching

Feeling in peace and calm

Listening and giving peace to others
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and my smile.
That I'm trustworthy and a great person.
People feel confident with me, and open to me and share their problems and worries. And I honour their confidence.
As I'm in peace and a positive, smiling person, they always think I'm 25-28. Cool!!.
That I'm clever. Fun. That I'm strong.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Mecanoscrit del segon origen
Tirant lo Blanc
The promised princess
Contra el vent del nord (Daniel Glattauer)
The Peter Principle
1984
A happy world
Fahrenheit 451
Bertran, un templari a l'Exili
World War Z
2001 Space Odissey
Ender's Game (trilogy and the parallel trilogy)
Lord of the rings
(and now I want to go walking to the street and have no time to write more) :P
I use to read three or four books at the same time. I use to read 10 books per month.
Novels, technical, self-improvement..

I love to watch DVD's at the sofa and cinema.
Movies:
The Last Dragon
Perfect Weapon
You've got an email
Philadelphia
Forrest Gump
The Green Mile
Fried green tomatoes
Million Dollar Baby
Star Wars*
Star Trek*
Star*
Jackie Chan*
Science Fiction*
Dune
Humor and crazy humor :)
Get over it (així és l'amor), DodgeBall, There's Something About Mary (quelcom passa amb Mary), Balls of fury, Austin Powers, American Pie, Porkis, from Monty Pyton: The knights of the square table, bryan's life
Action and martial arts movies
Die hard, rambo*, rocky*, beautiful boxer (about a travesti thai boxer)
Romantic movies too
About lawyers searching the thruth
American History X
Millenium
I love zombie movies too!!. They are fun. And humor + gore too. Fe: Braindead
28 Days Later
Some serie B productions are cool. I love Troma work. Fe: Toxic Avenger is hilarious!. :)

Series:
The young ones, Battlestar Galatica, Manga: arare, Bola de Drac (Dragon ball), Family Guy, The Simpsons, South Park, Futurama

Music: almost everything
Catalan rock, pop, country: Els Pets, Lax'n Busto, Sangtraït, Sau, Mishima, Manel, els Amics de les Arts, Marge d'Error, Tancat per defunció, Tomeu Penya...
American/Canada/English/German rock, pop.
I love Dave Carroll's song: united breaks guitars
Many youtube singers: Miarose, ana free
Techno
Classical
Country. I was in Nashville for a week and it was great!.
I often go a bar in Barcelona to listen live guitar music.

Food:
In general I like all kinds of food. I love Catalan food, japanese, Irish, chinese, I like kebabs...
I really enjoy going to restaurants, and I love very big steaks.
But I think someday I'll go vegetarian, cause I hate animal suffering.
I don't like spicy and those food that are eaten from a shared dish with the hands. I dislike it and I don't like to share a dish or a drink with other people, even friends, because diseases are transmited this way.
The six things I could never do without
Myself
Internet
The world or a spaceship to live :)
Freedom
Money
Brain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How things work.
Looking inside.
The better way to do things, improve.
How lucky I'm and how many good things are in my life.

I also spend many time thinking about how many amazing girls always put their attention on the bad guys, on the assholes, and ignore the good guys. By doing that they are never happy, and many nice guys are unhappy too and have low self-steem because always being rejected.
I can only think on how many amazing experiences and fun those girls are missing by no meeting me. Poor. ;)

As being a part on this, often being ignored, with a bulletproof self-esteem, I can only say that is a bit sad from you. May be you can try me. Is something different that perhaps you really love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly I don't enjoy a lot night life.
Is full of drunk people, crazy people or violent, selfish...
I like to meet cool people, so my spectrum of places to go is more those places where we can talk and have a calm, cool night.
I go to friendly pubs where they play live music.
I also enjoy going to restaurant with a cool company.
If you enjoy that may be we can go together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm not the prototype of menly guy.
I'm mean I'm strong and brave, but also sensitive and caring. And also I'm clever and I like poetry, philosophy...
And it does perfectly fit into my personality. I'm not afraid to admit.
It's cool.

I'm shy inside (although nobody believes it if you're my good friend you will softly notice) and I'll not disclose who lover I'm/was with, or the details of the relation, neither to my closest friends. That's private between her and me. Even if she acted bad.

I tend to see the best of every person.
And when I was a child I studied in a school with separate classes for boys and for girls.
I grow believing that girls were much better than guys. (no violent, no selfish, no feeling sexual desire so intensely...)

These joined, made me suffer a lot with superficial, liar, selfish girls. I was not able to imagine that they were like that, so it was like and horror zombies armageddon movie. But I survived.

I enjoy:
- adventures, with good people girls
- true love

I'm not sure if finding true love will happen, but I'm sure I don't want a serious relationship with someone I don't feel as a my soulmate.

In a girl I would like to find:
- Someone fun
- Trustworthy
- Confident
- My friend, my best friend
- My partner, my ally
- Smart
- Deep thinking
- Honest
- Niceness
- Innocence inside
- Compassion
- Strength to fight the assholes, and wisdom to differentiate the right ones from the bad ones
- Passion to learn
- Good conversation listening / speaking

I prefer young girls, because I feel like a young soul and mind, and they are really fun, even in the other hand there are other problems.
I don't want to set rules as I want the right person, and I'll notice when I know her. If I connect with a wonderful person, let's say 40 y.o., I would be happy to be so lucky. If is a 20 y.o. shy, but is HER, I'll be glad.
Can't program the right person. Only be open to meet. I'll know when I find her.

Honesty is not negotiable.

Good looking is a bonus, but irrelevant compared to the other attributes.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want.
OR
You want to have fun.
OR
You are a positive person and want to learn and share things,
OR
You like beer, tea, water xD
OR
You're a supercool person that is sad now and need an honest friend.
OR
If you're a clever girl or gifted that would like to talk to a very clever boy.

Don't write me if your're a psycho or you have a boyfriend (and don't plan to quit) or if you hide that you want a boy to tell you nice things but never ever meet him in real life or if you're a liar.