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apestyle

37 / M / straight / Married

Monroe, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Jacked
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am agreeable, avuncular, and hoi polloi.

My Self-Summary

I'm 6'2", built like an ox and ethnically half Korean. I'm a fan of kimchee, rockabilly and bluegrass, live shows, and nerdy pursuits like D&D.

Although I'm big, I'm also gentle. I'm a good father figure, a good listener, and an artist. I'm also a professional with ambition and good communication skills.

My wife and I have an open relationship, what many call Polyamory, and if you have any questions about that, please let me know. One of the cornerstones of this type of relationship is making sure that the communication is good and clear. I'm not looking to run around with someone without her knowledge.

Right now I just want to have some fun, get in some interesting conversation, flirting, and learning more about people, go on fun dates, and eventually - if it works out, being a part of a really kick-ass woman's life. Poly ain't so different from other relationships, as it turns out.

I can teach you some kungfu, debate politics with you if you'd like, and give great massage afterwards.

Oh, also I sing. Pretty well. I enjoy karaoke and have been in several musicals. I might do more.

What I’m doing with my life

Moving to Kirkland, back in the software testing industry, and getting a little more serious.

I’m really good at

Karaoke, catching things that are falling in mid-air, and comic book trivia.

The first things people usually notice about me

I had one guy said, "You're the biggest goddamned Japanese I've ever seen." The next time I saw him, he said the same thing.

I'm Korean, though. Well half. The good half.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: A Storm of Swords, A People's History of the United States
Movies: Children of Men, Miller's Crossing, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang
Music - Old 97s, Silversun Pickups, OK GO, Elvis Costello, Jet, Modest Mouse, Muse, Panic at the Disco, Pixies, Queens of the Stone Age, Radiohead, The Strokes, Weezer,
Food: Most things spicy, Indian, Korean, Italian, Thai

The six things I could never do without

pen, paper, music, yakking, sex, love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to raise the kids right, organic foods, green energy, gaming, love, fate, my role on this mudball.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends, going out with my wife, going out on a date, playing D&D minis with the kids, playing with the dog, going to the movies or watching whatever has accumulated on TiVo.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm pretty afraid of spiders.

You should message me if

If you are interested in exploring new ways that love can work, if you like a self-confident guy that wants to take you out on a interesting date (but only after I get to know what your likes/dislikes are), or if you wanna talk about our mutual interests and make new friends.