I am agreeable, avuncular, and hoi polloi.
My Self-Summary
I'm 6'2", built like an ox and ethnically half Korean. I'm a fan of
kimchee,
rockabilly and bluegrass, live shows, and nerdy pursuits like
D&D.
Although I'm big, I'm also gentle. I'm a good father figure, a good
listener, and an artist. I'm also a professional with ambition and
good communication skills.
My wife and I have an open relationship, what many call
Polyamory, and if you
have any questions about that, please let me know. One of the
cornerstones of this type of relationship is making sure that the
communication is good and clear. I'm not looking to run around with
someone without her knowledge.
Right now I just want to have some fun, get in some interesting
conversation, flirting, and learning more about people, go on
fun dates, and
eventually - if it works out, being a part of a really kick-ass
woman's life. Poly ain't so different from other relationships, as
it turns out.
I can teach you some
kungfu, debate politics with you if you'd
like, and give great
massage afterwards.
Oh, also I sing. Pretty well. I enjoy karaoke and have been in
several musicals. I might do more.
What I’m doing with my life
Moving to Kirkland, back in the software testing industry, and
getting a little more serious.
I’m really good at
Karaoke, catching things that are falling in mid-air, and comic
book trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
I had one guy said, "You're the biggest goddamned Japanese I've
ever seen." The next time I saw him, he said the same thing.
I'm Korean, though. Well half. The good half.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: A Storm of Swords, A People's History of the United
States
Movies: Children of Men, Miller's Crossing, Kiss Kiss Bang
Bang
Music - Old 97s, Silversun Pickups, OK GO, Elvis Costello, Jet,
Modest Mouse, Muse, Panic at the Disco, Pixies, Queens of the Stone
Age, Radiohead, The Strokes, Weezer,
Food: Most things spicy, Indian, Korean, Italian, Thai
The six things I could never do without
pen, paper, music, yakking, sex, love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to raise the kids right, organic foods, green energy, gaming,
love, fate, my role on this mudball.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, going out with my wife, going out on a
date, playing D&D minis with the kids, playing with the dog,
going to the movies or watching whatever has accumulated on TiVo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm pretty afraid of spiders.
You should message me if
If you are interested in exploring new ways that love can work, if
you like a self-confident guy that wants to take you out on a
interesting date (but only after I get to know what your
likes/dislikes are), or if you wanna talk about our mutual
interests and make new friends.