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aphexavi

31 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:03pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Tango musician, friend of cats, listener, appreciator of good beer. Probably not an introvert but surely not the opposite. I love practicing music and mindfulness, spending time with friends, etc etc... Every time I go hiking I remember how much it means to me, and then I usually forget for a while, which means the next time I happen to go it's completely enthralling again.
What I’m doing with my life
Music, mostly, but other things too. I lead a quintet that plays concerts and milongas for tango dancers, and a long standing jazz / electronic recording project that tours from time to time. I teach private music lessons to a bunch of really awesome kids in the bay area, a good split of beginners and older jazz kids. We talk about theory and life. I do a lot of recording, studying, reading, hanging out, local-show-seeing. Sometimes I remember things that were important to me when I was little, and try to follow up on those things.
I’m really good at
Dreaming things up, then making them happen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Instead of a long list, here is one big-time favorite of each:

David Foster Wallace
Triplets of Belleville
Fishing with John
Autechre
Ethiopian
The six things I could never do without
coffee
forward motion
kindness
a community of people who make sounds
time in the open air
practices
I spend a lot of time thinking about
projects. I'm usually doing something that leads to something that leads to something unknown.
On a typical Friday night I am
sometimes out, sometimes not. I don't discriminate between evenings though, I could say the same of my monday nights.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you'd like to...