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24 M San Rafael, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 20–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:38am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Alex and I'm a single 24 year-old man who is looking for love. I was born in Southern California (in Manhattan Beach) and by age two my family moved to the Bay Area (Novato to be more precise). I lived in Novato for about 11yrs until my family moved again in the San Rafael neighborhood called Terra Linda for about 11yrs now.
It's been a year now that I signed up for OkCupid. Still no luck, BUT I SHALL NOT GIVE UP.
UPDATE: Could be moving to Oceanside, California within a year or so...its a family matter.

Some characteristics I could say about myself:
I'm a bit shy, easy going, sometimes funny, a bit nerdy/geeky (cause I like fiction, science fiction, comics, anime/manga), kinda laid back and very creative when it comes to art. I try to be active with social life by seeing movies, going the the library, and spending some quality time with my friends and family.

All I want is a change in my social life. I have often felt that there was no one for me, so the only thing I've done was mostly school and work. But every time I see a couple holding hands, give each other a hug or a kiss in public places I envied them because I had no one to share it. Part of me just wants to know that I am still human and not just a emotionless machine. I'm tired of being single.
I kinda consider myself like TED MOSBY from How I Met Your Mother, a guy who wants to find the woman he wants to be "yellow umbrella" girl

I'm not into sports (baseball is fine, but I'm not a huge crazy fan), I lack muscles, I have NO tattoos and/or piercings, I don't know how to dance or play a musical instrument, I'm not much of a texter, Not a dog person (I've lived with a few dogs since I was 6yrs old and they drove me nuts), I DO NOT smoke cigars/cigarettes/pot/marijuana/meth and I am kinda new to the drinking world so don't expect me to go to a lot of bars. As for father is Jewish and my mother is Christian...I'm just trying to find my own path while soul searching.

I would like to learn and part take in some awesome activities:
-Camping [I haven't done it since I was a little boy]
-Horseback riding
-Zip lining
-Sky diving (in-door and out-door)
-Wingsuit flying (imagine a human flying squirrel)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I attend community college for seven years now and will be almost ready to graduate soon [maybe by this coming semester]. I plan to get my Associate of Arts Degree in Art and English Writing and plan on being a cartoonist/writer.

I also work part-time at a toy store in San Anselmo that sells all things LEGO. Its called Play-Well TEKnologies (T = Teaching, E = Engineering to, K= Kids). I mostly work as a clerk/assembler as I make kits for kids across the U.S. and the Globe.

UPDATE: I am recovering from a surgical operation from my lower body...its for a wound I had when I had surgery last February for removing a cyst.
I'm planning of making a tribute to the late Robin Williams at my college [which was where he was one of its best alumni].
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a talented artist. I mostly draw with pencils, but I am also talented with charcoal. And I am practicing with watercolor and painting. I am currently developing a graphic novel in my spare time away from school and work.
I also am good with writing short stories and writing down ideas for a book/TV shows/movies.
AND I can do some voice impressions...which are a work in progress.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall and I look like my father.

Just don't make me say, "Fee, Fi Fo Fum".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Soon I Will be Invincible by Austin Grossman, Will Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, the Harry Potter books, Mary Shelly's Frankenstein, Battle Royale by Koushun Takami, Tuck Everlasting, The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch, & The Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis, Capt. Hook - The Adventures of a Notorious Youth by J.V. Hart, and graphic novels like Kurt Busiek's Astro City: The Tarnished Angel, Kirby: Genesis, Batman - The Dark Knight Returns by Frank Miller, Spider-Man: The Real Clone Saga, Icon: A Hero's Welcome, Kevin Smith's Green Hornet AND Bionic Man, Jack Kirby's Galactic Bounty Hunters, and anything written by Stan Lee.

Movies: James Bood, Rocky, Jackie Chan movies, Star Wars, Indiana Jones, Pirates of the Caribbean, Marxs Brothers, Three Stooges shorts, the Christopher Nolan Batman Trilogy (Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, & The Dark Knight Rises), Miyazaki movies, Godzilla movies, Terminator, So I Married an Axe Murderer, Hot Shots Part Deux, Pleasentville, Romeo and Juliet (BOTH the 1968 Zeffirelli and the 1996 Luhrmann movie), The Princess Bride, Hook, The Untouchables, Who Framed Rodger Rabbit, Highlander, Finding Neverland, Marvel's The Avengers, Snow Falling on Cedars, Battle Royale, Aladdin, Rush Hour, Swiss Family Robinson, Now You See Me, AND TONS MORE...

Shows: Married W/ Children, 2 Broke Girls, Two & a Half Men, Anger Management, How I Met Your Mother, The Big Bang Theory, Melissa & Joey, Boy Meets World, SNL, The Tribe, Firefly, M*A*S*H*, Castle, Drop Dead Diva, Degrassi - The Next Generation, Smallville, Arrow, Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Once Upon a Time, Comic Book Men, MXC, Ridiculousness, Whose Line Is It Anyway, Drew Carey Show, What I Like About You, Avatar - The Last Air Bender, The Legend of Korra, Young Justice, Hey Arnold, Doug, Total Drama series, Dan Vs., The Dating Guy, and Chobits. AND TONS MORE...

Music: Beatles, Beach Boys, Elton John, Michael Jackson, Motown, Mamas & Papas, Frank Sinatra, Tony Bennett, Tom Jones, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Marvin Gaye, Queen, Green Day, Black Eyed Peas, AC/DC and some R&B.
I also have this weird taste for soundtrack music from movies and TV shows as well as some classic and cultural music surrounding operas and musicals like Carmen, the anvil chorus in Il Trovatore, the Nutcracker, Toccata and Fugue (in d minor), Irish/Celtic, Asian.

Food: Cheese pizza, tacos, french fries, grilled cheese sandwiches, ice cream, apples, bananas, grapes, and watermelon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends
2. My family (mainly my divorced parents)
3. My cat (her name is Chica)
4. My comic books
5. My binder/notebook full of ideas
6. My artwork
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Developing my creative ideas for story growth and artistic appearances. I also think about meeting a woman who I can share my time with and the romantic adventures I would like to plan. I want to believe in [true] love.

Other times I think what to browse/buy on Amazon/bookstores/comic book shops/video stores, life, my hopes and dreams, what to do with my friends, what is playing on tv/movie theater, where I see myself 5yrs. into the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually studying (if I am in school) or I watch movies/TV and read one of my books/comics.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1.) I only make coffee for my mother, but I never drink it....unless you add brown sugar.
2.) I still watch cartoons. (I'm a kid at heart)
3.) I DO NOT know how to drive. Seriously. (Kinda working on that...)
4.) I'm scared of sharks (I saw the movie JAWS when I was like 10yrs old)
5.) I have vampire like teeth/fangs.
6.) I've never had a relationship of any kind: long or short term.
7.) I always wanted to be a Power Ranger since I was a kid.
8.) I've never been inside of a taxi cab or the subway.
9.) I'm a sucker for a pretty [and beautiful] woman.
You should message me if
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you are someone, like me, who is trying their luck in the dating world and is interested in getting to know each other. I am interested in a girl who describes herself as slightly nerdy/geeky who likes comics and cartoons, who is smart, pretty and kind, who is NOT into drugs and isn't judgmental. I am not particular about height, weight, race, or religion. What is important to me is personality and compatibility.

If you wish to contact me, feel free to send me a message.
If you also want to contact me on Facebook, here is my web address:

Also, message me ONLY if you live in the United States of America, live in the state of California, and/or reside in the Bay Area. And if you rate me between 4 through 5, please message me cause I can't see who you are on OkCupid, not until I upgrade onto A-List.

I'm probably one of the honest good guys you will ever meet. Just give me a chance.