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  • Ages 28-45
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Queer, Sapiosexual
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When asked to describe me in three words, my friends responded with the following:
outgoing, erudite, worldly
brainy, introspective, inadvertent
charming, ebullient, adorable
thoughtful, outgoing, and dead-sexy
introspective, open, brave
wickedly intelligent, mindful, maker-of-sweet-juices
Goodatdecorating, greatatmakingfajitas, evenbetteratmakingmargaritas

I used to consider myself more of a thinker than a doer, but as I've gotten older, I've worked to change that. I love dancing, driving, running, hiking and trying new things. (Recent shenanigans include performing improv in front of 700 people, something I had no business doing, and training for a 2 week trek through Nepal.) I do still think an awful lot though.

I love the outdoors and natural beauty—wherever it can be found, be it in waterfall fog tumbling over the hills of the California coast or one of my middle school students showing genuine kindness to each other. (I now teach college students--they're much less adorable, but definitely have their own perks. I am humbled every semester when I read their "turning-point" essays and realize what they have overcome to make it where they are.)

I'm an ENTP with F tendencies.
What I’m doing with my life
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studying how people learn
wrangling college administrators
figuring out how to host a really good salon
trying to figure out how to explain the concept of ideology to my students so they really get it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing with ideas
drinking tequila
beating you at Mercy
The first things people usually notice about me
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smile, laugh, eyes, brain
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: How We Decide, Black Ice, The Poisonwood Bible, Man's Search for Meaning... I tend to get more infatuated with ideas than books, honestly.
Movies: 25th Hour, You Can Count on Me, American Beauty, Smoke Signals, Six Degrees of Separation
Music: Rodrigo y Gabriela, Jose Gonzales, Imogen Heap, Chris Pureka, Tiesto
Other: Radiolab, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, TED Talks, waitbutwhy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Meaningful work
Mascara (go ahead, judge.)
Natural beauty within running distance
Spell check
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything... it's a problem
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The plan is to go to yoga before going out with friends (or out with you!) but truth be told, I'm not great at sticking to plans...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can’t spell to save my life (something that comes up often on my student evaluations), I get really bored with cooking and, despite teaching reading, I’d rather you summarized a book for me, or gifted it to me on iTunes, or—ideally—read it to me (but I’d be really happy to talk with you about the ideas in it at length).
You should message me if
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you liked my profile
you also define as sapiosexual
you have a great TED talk you think I'd like. :-)
you agree that ghosting people is ridiculous and believe in direct communication
you would get it if I were a synth for Halloween