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25 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:31pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I love fun. That said, I work too hard and occasionally need a reminder to have some.

Born and raised in east Queens. New York is like a big sister to me; I admire her, but sometimes I get sick of her and wish she'd just shut up. I love discovering new places near and far. I'm a compulsive listmaker who's actually pretty great at living in the now. No one can get enough of my dance moves — take me to a block party and I will make friends.

I love stuff like this:

And this:

And even this:

I've done things this year I didn't know I could do (e.g. finished a manuscript, gone hosteling, snuck into a decommissioned naval base)... and there's much, much more to come, preferably sooner than later.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a copywriter at an ad agency. On my own time, I write edgy short fiction about insufferable teenagers. I love photography, thrifting, theater, comedy, yoga, knitting, decorating, planning vacations and Duolingo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Close reading, knowing about Queens
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Loose curls, amicable realness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: CivilWarLand in Bad Decline, The Confessions of Edward Day, The Goldfinch, The Little Friend, The Secret History, Hey Nostradamus!, The World According to Garp, A Prayer for Owen Meany, The Handmaid's Tale, Motherless Brooklyn, White Noise

Short: Death in Venice, A Christmas Memory, The Ant of the Self, A View of the Woods, Adams, The 400-Pound CEO

Movies: Short Term 12, David and Lisa, Harold and Maude, The Dish and the Spoon, Frances Ha, Richard Linklater's Before Sunrise/Sunset/Midnight, Boyhood, Blue is the Warmest Color

Shows: Grandma's House, The Chris Gethard Show, Broad City

Music: Alice Smith, Amy Winehouse, Nina Simone, Janis Joplin, Lhasa de Sela, Shannon and the Clams, Josephine Foster, Lizzo, Years and Years, Lucius, Denai Moore

Food: I make a mean chickpea salad.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from physiological needs and human relationships:

1) My laptop, Holly
2) My iPhone, Thom
3) My financial independence
4) My picture window necklace
5) My glasses
6) My domain name
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How could I have saved Amy Winehouse?
Where am I going next?
What's something I have not yet done — and can I do it today?
Am I subverting a trope or just becoming one?
Do I need real shoes for this?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going somewhere new with old friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The real reason I haven't seen "Her" is that too many people are smitten with it. Why so many of you? Calm down.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to:

a) get coffee
b) rack up meaningful life experiences
c) stop worrying about making time for dating