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24 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:22pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Greek (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I love fun. That said, I work too hard and occasionally need a reminder to have some.

Born and raised in east Queens. New York is like a big sister to me; I admire her, but sometimes I get sick of her and wish she'd just shut up. I like exploring other cities and hope to visit a bunch more soon. In the meantime, I've been seeing what there is to see out here on the East Coast.

I really like stuff like this:

And this:

And even this:

A few other pieces of relevant information: My family cares a lot about education. Strivers make me uncomfortable. Suave people terrify me. Museums make me feel safe. I can occasionally be so shy that my friends tell me I'm hiding my face in my face.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in digital advertising for a brand your mom probably likes. On my own time, I write edgy short fiction and wrestle with monstrous narrative non-fiction projects. I knit things. I'm quite good with a DSLR when I can manage to get my hands on one.
I’m really good at
Close reading, setting goals that scare me shitless, planning vacations.
The first things people usually notice about me
Loose curls and amicable realness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: CivilWarLand in Bad Decline, The Book of Illusions, The Confessions of Edward Day, The Goldfinch, The Little Friend, The Secret History, Hey Nostradamus!, Saint Joan, An Enemy of the People, Great Expectations, The World According to Garp, A Prayer for Owen Meany, The Handmaid's Tale, The Naked Civil Servant, Motherless Brooklyn, How Should a Person Be

Short: Death in Venice, A Christmas Memory, The Ant of the Self, A Good Man is Hard to Find, A View of the Woods, The 400-Pound CEO

Movies: Jules and Jim, David and Lisa, Harold and Maude, Breaking Away, The Dish and the Spoon, Frances Ha, Richard Linklater's Before Sunrise/Sunset/Midnight, Vodka Lemon, Blue is the Warmest Color

Shows: Grandma's House, The Chris Gethard Show, Broad City

Music: Lucius, Alice Smith, Amy Winehouse, Nina Simone, Janis Joplin, Lhasa de Sela, Shannon and the Clams, Josephine Foster

Food: I'm really into salsas right now.
The six things I could never do without
Apart from physiological needs and human relationships:

1) My laptop, Holly
2) My iPhone, Thom
3) My financial independence
4) My picture window necklace
5) My glasses
6) My hard drive
I spend a lot of time thinking about
query letters, radon levels
On a typical Friday night I am
going somewhere new with old friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've hated cars ever since I got hit by one. I want to wear a sandwich board with a big YIELD sign on it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if

You want to.

You are secretly (or not-so-secretly) the sweet one in your friend group.

You think we could learn from each other.