Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love fun. That said, I work too hard and occasionally need a
reminder to have some.
Born and raised in east Queens. New York is like a big sister to
me; I admire her, but sometimes I get sick of her and wish she'd
just shut up. I love discovering new places near and far. I'm a
compulsive listmaker who's actually pretty great at living in the
now. No one can get enough of my dance moves — take me to a block
party and I will make friends.
I've done things this year I didn't know I could do (e.g. finished
a manuscript, traveled solo, snuck into a decommissioned naval
base)... and there's much, much more to come, preferably sooner
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a copywriter at an ad agency. On my own time, I write edgy
short fiction about insufferable people. I love photography,
thrifting, theater, comedy, yoga, knitting, decorating, travel and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Close reading, planning vacations
The first things people usually notice about me
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Loose curls, amicable realness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Collected Stories of Flannery O'Connor; CivilWarLand in
Bad Decline; American Pastoral; Rabbit, Run; The Handmaid's Tale;
The Blind Assassin; Great Expectations; The Little Friend; The
Secret History; A Prayer for Owen Meany; The World According to
Garp; Drinking Coffee Elsewhere; Death in Venice
Movies: Harold and Maude, The Dish and the Spoon, Blue is the
Shows: Grandma's House, The Chris Gethard Show, Broad City
Music: Alice Smith, Amy Winehouse, Nina Simone, Janis Joplin, Denai
Moore, Lhasa de Sela, Josephine Foster, Lizzo, Years & Years,
Lucius, Haze, Clean Bandit, London Grammar, Robin Schulz
Food: I'm really into salsas right now.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from physiological needs and human relationships:
1) My laptop, Holly
2) My iPhone, Thom
3) My financial independence
4) My speakers
5) My glasses
6) My domain name
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How could I have saved Amy Winehouse?
Will they notice if I check my phone?
What's something I have not yet done — and can I do it today?
Am I subverting a trope or just becoming one?
Do I need real shoes for this?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going somewhere new with old friends.
You should message me if
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You want to talk to someone on your wavelength.
You have an esoteric hobby that you thoroughly enjoy sharing with
You won't give me any of the societal agita.
You want to do one of these things:
- finally go to Ippudo
- finally go to SPiN
- see an Annie Baker play
- Dutch pancakes at Prune
- pick something at random off nifty/skint
- Night Train with Wyatt Cenac
- Brooklyn Night Bazaar
- Union Pool
- The Uncommons
- Any and all museums
- Gallery openings
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