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25 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 22
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love fun. That said, I work too hard and occasionally need a reminder to have some.

Born and raised in east Queens. New York is like a big sister to me; I admire her, but sometimes I get sick of her and wish she'd just shut up. I love discovering new places near and far. I'm a compulsive listmaker who's actually pretty great at living in the now. No one can get enough of my dance moves — take me to a block party and I will make friends.

I'm really into warm people. Nothing makes me happier than eating a real meal with a big group of hilarious, passionate, easygoing friends who just want to experience the full breadth of what life has to offer.

I've done things this year I didn't know I could do (e.g. finished a manuscript, traveled solo, snuck into a decommissioned naval base)... and there's much, much more to come, preferably sooner than later.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a copywriter at an ad agency. On my own time, I write edgy short fiction about insufferable people. I love photography, thrifting, theater, comedy, yoga, knitting, decorating, travel and Duolingo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Close reading, planning vacations
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Loose curls, amicable realness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: CivilWarLand in Bad Decline, The Confessions of Edward Day, The Goldfinch, The Little Friend, The Secret History, Hey Nostradamus!, The World According to Garp, A Prayer for Owen Meany, The Handmaid's Tale, Motherless Brooklyn, Drinking Coffee Elsewhere

Short: Death in Venice, A Christmas Memory, The Ant of the Self, Brownies, A View of the Woods, Adams, The 400-Pound CEO

Movies: Harold and Maude, The Dish and the Spoon, Blue is the warmest color, David and Lisa

Shows: Grandma's House, The IT Crowd, The Chris Gethard Show, Broad City, Some Girls, Sherlock

Music: Beyoncé, Alice Smith, Amy Winehouse, Nina Simone, Janis Joplin, Yusuf Islam (Cat Stevens), Lhasa de Sela, Shannon and the Clams, Josephine Foster, Lizzo, Years and Years, Lucius, Denai Moore, Haze, Clean Bandit, London Grammar, Robin Schulz

Food: Pataniscas de bacalhau <3
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from physiological needs and human relationships:

1) My laptop, Holly
2) My iPhone, Thom
3) My financial independence
4) My picture window necklace
5) My glasses
6) My domain name
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How could I have saved Amy Winehouse?
Will they notice if I check my phone?
What's something I have not yet done — and can I do it today?
Am I subverting a trope or just becoming one?
Do I need real shoes for this?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going somewhere new with old friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm looking for something more serious, though I'm fine with meeting lots of people until something truly works.
You should message me if
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You want to talk to someone on your wavelength and maybe try one of those cocktails that look like hot fudge sundaes.

Edit: My friend was lamenting how dating in NYC can lose its fun aspect very quickly, since there are so many people and so few of them are eligibly sane. I suggested that she make a list of fun things to do with or without a companion. That way, every date will be fun no matter what. Probably.

I've decided to take my own advice. Feel free to share your list with me!

- be christmassy at Rolf’s
- go ice skating in Bryant Park (I have knee pads!)
- see “It’s a Wonderful Life” at IFC

- finally go to Ippudu
- finally go to SPiN
- finally go to that Portuguese restaurant on Spring Street
- Nitehawk
- Advise each other on all of the cool vacations we could take separately
- Brooklyn Night Bazaar
- Union Pool
- The Original Dutch Street Style Memory Game vol. 3
- Hiking meetup (via