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applextrent

23 / M / straight / Single

Huntington Beach, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am unusual, enigmatic, and honest.

My Self-Summary

My names Trent.

I'm a geek 90's grunge indie rocker intellectual.

I'm typically pretty easy to get along with, I can carry a conversation, and have a decent sense of humor.

I've done some pretty crazy things in my life already, traveled the world (although I'm no where near done). I'm currently in the process of redefining myself, and miss having someone important in my life. I am a very passionate, honest, intimate, and sensitive person when you get to know me.

I moved back home to HB from LA and I'm pretty much having to pick up my life where it left off when I first left the OC few years ago. It's weird to be back.

I want to find someone who I can do absolutely nothing with and be perfectly content, in retrospect I need someone who can also keep up with my more intense moments. I'm here looking for a friend first, a lover second, and someone that's a bit dark and different like I am. I want someone who is damaged enough to know the good from the bad but still try's to make the best of life and who doesn't want to be alone anymore.

Please don't be intimidated or anything to talk to me. I'm very open minded, and down to earth.

My AIM/Yahoo: applextrent

What I’m doing with my life

Music: I pretty much live to go to concerts, and I've been to a lot of them.

I came to the realization that I love music more than most people, so I may as well learn how to make my own so I'm teaching myself how to play the guitar. Over the last year I've been writing lyrics that I'm hoping to turn into songs once I get better at the guitar.

Writing: I've been a writer, blogger, journalist, and columnist since I was a teenager and had some early success as a writer. I've been in a creative funk lately, but once I find my muse again I really want to finish my book.

Work: I get paid to build and market things on the internet. I've worked for some surreal major companies in the past but now sit in a cubical, recessions suck.

Fun I spend my days right now playing my guitar, spending time with my dogs, keeping up on the latest music, tv, and movies, reading Reddit, and whenever I get the chance go on adventures with my friends (concerts, movies, raves, bonfires, kickbacks, clubs, occasional road-trip, Coachella).

Education: I'm well read, I follow world events, politics, and have spent several years in college, written countless articles, essays, and papers. I can discuss pretty much any subject.

Traveling: I've already been to Paris, the Caribbean, the Bahamas, Mexico, Canada, and several major US cities (San Francisco, Las Vegas, San Diego, New York, Washington DC, Hawaii), many skiing destinations, and a lot of places in between. I'd like to travel a lot more, but enjoy it more with a friend or partner. I really want to go to Seattle, and head back to New York to visit family. I'd also love to go back and explore more of Europe, especially Greece and Italy (I'm a quarter greek, and a quarter Italian). Japan interests me as well.

I’m really good at

Over analyzing everything.

Going to concerts.

Writing.

I have a knack for finding unusual minds, and somehow understanding them. Probably because my own mind is unusual.

Internet marketing, Macs, iPhones, web development, graphic design. I'm good with most technology in general.

Cooking. I cook most of my own meals.

The first things people usually notice about me

I probably haven't shaved. I hate shaving, I'll do it once or twice a week but I don't like it.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Anything by Charles Bukowski, 1984, Snow Crash.

I like spending time with my two wiener dogs.

I love 90's music, and I've been to a lot of concerts over the years. I grew up backstage for my Dad was a music producer.

More recently I've been listening to Built to Spill, Wolfmother, The xx, Muse, Deadmau5, The Bloody Beet Roots, Pearl Jam... My Musical tastes are ever evolving, especially since I've been learning music and hear it completely differently than I use to (It's kinda of crazy but now I can selectively listen for vocals, different instruments, synthesizers, and I'm learning to identify the key of songs, etc).

Some of the bands I listen to: Audioslave, U2, The Beatles (John Lennon), Nine Inch Nails, Rage Against the Machine, The Foo Fighters, The Black Keys, Nirvana, Muse, Radiohead, Incubus, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Staind, Seether, Silversun Pickups, Tool, Coldplay, Minus The Bear, Jeff Buckley, System of a Down, A Perfect Circle, Sublime, Deftones, The Mars Volta, The Cure, The Dave Matthews Band, Stone Temple Pilots, Kidneythieves, My Morning Jacket, Kings of Leon, Death Cab for Cutie, Built To Spill, The Boxer Rebellion, Collective Soul, Jakalope, Jack Off Jill, Scarling, Poe, Bettie Serveert, White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Lacuna Coil, Metric, Slant, Interpol, Bad Religion, Underworld, Christopher Lawrence, Portishead, Louis XIV, Depeche Mode, Eisley, The Brian Jonestown Massacre, Tapping The Vein, The Plot to Blow Up the Eiffel Tower, fiREHOSE, Meat Puppets, Flyleaf, The Dandy Warhols, Zero 7, The Shins, Radio Birdman, I Am X, Von Bondies, Snow Patrol, Frou Frou (Imogen Heap), The Music, Wolfmother, The (International) Noise Conspiracy, Temple of the Dog, At The Drive-In, Sparta, Toadies, Glassjaw, Refused, Thursday, Remy Zero, The Offspring, Mad At Gravity, Velvet Revolver, Social Distortion, Rob Dougan, Queens of the Stone Age, Puddle of Mudd, Play Pretty For Baby, Placebo, Moby, Jane’s Addiction, Green Day, Everclear, Counting Crows, The Clash, and more.

You can take my Mac when pry my cold dead fingers off the mouse. Same for my iPhone, well except the mouse part.

I like movies. Underworld (1-3), District 9, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, A Scanner Darkly, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (Tim Burton), 300, Watchmen, The Crow, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Ghost In The Shell 1&2, Wall-e, The Incredibles, Finding Nemo, Kill Bill 1&2, Waking Life, The Matrix (only the 1st one), Boondock Saints, Cowboy Bebop The Movie, Donnie Darko.

I'm a sucker for TV: Law and Order SVU (I <3 Mariksa), Dexter (a serial killer you can't help but like), House MD (Hugh Laurie is my hero), True Blood (who doesn't like sex, blood, and vampires?), Six Feet Under (we're all going to die eventually), South Park (who doesn't love kids?), 24 (Tick-tock).

Watching NFL football. Go 49ers!

I love sushi, sandwiches, and pho.

People watching.

The six things I could never do without

iPhone.

MacBook.

Music.

My Guitar.

My dogs.

My car.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Music. Politics. The future. The past. The human condition. The internet. Women. Relationships. Psychology. Psychiatry. Computers. Business. Marketing. Anthropology. Philisophy... Where am I? Who are you? Where are my jeans?

On a typical Friday night I am

Spending a lot of time thinking about all the crap above no matter what I'm doing apparently.

Lately I haven't had many people to go out with but when I do I usually go to concerts, movies, raves, bonfires, kickbacks, dive bars (even though I usually don't drink), and the occasional club.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Despite the intellectual "bad ass" exterior I present to the world I'm really just a good guy trying to find love and acceptance.

I've endured a lot throughout my life, and my relationships have suffered because of it. If anything I'm guilty of caring too much but not always knowing how to express it. It would be nice to find love again and with someone who understands how much I care about those I love.

You should message me if

You know where the hell I put my jeans.

I'm always up for meeting new people, making new friends, and who knows maybe something more?