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april__7

41 F Zürich, Switzerland

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:40pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
synaesthesia.
thinking.
ideas.
more ideas.

playful.
sweetness.

heartfelt.
headstrong.
passion.

interested in people.
especially intelligent, complex, seasoned, self-reflected, emotionally literate people.
What I’m doing with my life
trying to make myself useful while i'm here.

i'm a social worker and a student of sociocultural animation.
i make my living managing community volunteering projects.

i'm interested in building what you might call social mobiles:
i'm thinking about how to build sustainable projects, in and of and for the community, with volunteers, and at the same time, i'm thinking of one of those delicate works of art, suspended in mid-air, the individual elements free to move and catch the light, all of them interconnected with gossamer thread.
I’m really good at
jumping in at the deep end.
verbal duets/duels.
kisses, hugs, light touches in passing.

smiling disarmingly.

listening.

reflection. abstraction. musing.
dreaming.
planning.
organisation.
making things happen.

singing.
appreciating art/nature/beauty.
romance.

facing up to human imperfection, closer than is easy to bear.
The first things people usually notice about me
are mostly owed to their own projections, and sometimes a starting point.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
people's communication patterns tend to matter more to me than do their cultural tastes. so i would like to save books, films, music etc. as talking points for later, and instead use this space to list my favourite kinds of communication on okcupid:

profiles with >300 words and >100 match questions answered
text-based profiles and substantial match questions are the main reason i chose okcupid instead of tinder or any other purely foto-based service.
i love the fact that here, i can literally read a person.
profiles with little or no text don't speak to me.

personalised messages
messages that feel copy-pasted don't speak to me, either.

a chat or three on okc's inbuilt im before deciding about a date
i love writing, i love conversation, and combining the two in a chat is one of my favourite ways to interact with others.
when i first meet someone online, the flow of chat conversation with them is the key factor in my decision about meeting them in person.
The six things I could never do without
love.

music.

food for thought, shared.

that moment once a day every day when it hits me just how fucking glorious it is to be alive, in spite of it all.

a new polar star once in a while.

love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
relationships.

on a micro and a macro scale.

i think about love, longing, sex, emotion, communication, intimacy, identity, socialisation, strata, values, power dynamics, culture, art, beauty, philosophy, science, technology, economy, politics, mortality, meta, the future - and my part in in all of that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is written up in detail in my extensive match questions comments.
if you want to get more of a sense of who i am, my match answers essays are a good place to start.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 19–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you are looking to connect with me as a human being, and not just a random sex object.
... you feel we could have a conversation neither of us have had before.