I am unabashed, unashamed, and unafraid.
My Self-Summary
I just moved from
Baltimore to
Austin and already love my new city. I
forgot what it was like to never walk alone. You always have a
friend here, even if it's only for 30 seconds in the check-out
line!
Anyway, about me.. I wake up singing, I sing in the shower, I sing
REALLY loudly in the car (I'm that chick in the car next to you
who's jamming out hardcore to whatever may be on her radio), and
sometimes I burst out into song without realizing I'm doing it. I
smile a lot, frown a lot, and make a lot of other different faces
without knowing it. I have a lot of energy and bounce, I've been
accused of being bubbly, and I am also disconcertingly
direct.
I am also really bad with open-ended questions. :)
I'm looking for someone who makes me feel like I have put my finger
into a light socket.
Oh, and I love
flowers. That will be handy information
later.
I have a tendency to browse through OkCupid profiles out of
boredom. I wish I could say hi, but I am terrible at initiating
conversation unless I'm really curious about something. Feel free
to say hi if you stop by.
If you want to know more, check out my myspace.
www.myspace.com/aprilyd
What I’m doing with my life
Learning my new home and trying to relax.
Trying to learn how to enjoy the journey, and not just always
looking forward to the destination.
I’m really good at
Listening and understanding. Being direct. Seeing all sides (or at
least 2 sides) of a situation. Staying calm in the face of a
crisis... Then immediately melting down the second all is clear
just to release all of that pent up emotion.
Oh, and balancing both a cat and a keyboard on my lap.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes and overwhelming power. You think I'm kidding, but I'm
not. I've heard, "Wow you're such a strong person," so many times,
that I've begun to believe it. This has nothing to do with physical
attributes, by the way. If you're one of those who says he wants a
strong woman but feels threatened by (and is therefore defensive
to) them, please don't bother with me.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
a) books:
Fantasy,
Sci/Fi,
Humor,
Forensic
Science,
Criminology
b) movies:
Comedy,
Romantic
Comedy, Action, and when I was a kid, Horror, but I've been so
disappointed in my "adult" years.
c) music: anything but rap. Seriously. My all-time favorite bands
are
Stone
Temple Pilots (*mourn*),
Red Hot Chili Peppers,
Portishead,
Maroon 5,
Dave
Matthews Band. I also like
Tori Amos. I can't think of any more
right now because I'm at work and my cds aren't around to sneak a
peek at. I'm a lyrics goddess, though, so I'll probably recognize a
lot of what anyone sings.
And by the way, I love the angry girl music of
Ani Difranco.
d) foods: Food and I don't really agree. I recently became
Vegan in order to
address this love-hate relationship between food and my body.
Health-wise, it's the best decision I've ever made. Emotionally?
It's rough. I love cheese. :P I like anything social, I guess, like
tapas or sushi.
The six things I could never do without
My computer, a good book to keep me distracted, a friend, sleep,
music, Carmex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next
art project.
How light bends around or through certain objects. Light and
shadows. What can be told by
trace evidence. The perfect
balance of characteristics that I look for in other human beings.
The lyrics of a song. That tune in my head. The blue sky meeting
the tall, green trees on the horizon in my home state and the peace
I feel when I behold that sight (it keeps me sane).
On a typical Friday night I am
Feeling dazed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I don't want to be your teacher. I don't want you to be mine. I'd
like to be in a relationship, but I'm not so desperate for it that
I'll put up with someone treating me like hell. Convince me. Other
than that, I'll admit anything if the right question is asked in
the right way.
You should message me if
You have something to say. I can't guarantee I'll have anything to
say back, but I usually do. DO NOT message me if you want a casual
relationship. I am NOT looking for sexual encounters, flings,
swings or whatever have you. I want a relationship. It doesn't have
to happen fast or immediately, but this is my idea behind dating -
to find someone I can connect with, share ideals and ideas with, be
a significant other with, for him to be more than a dick I can
masturbate with.
Also message me if..
1. You speak
Spanish or
German - ESPECIALLY if you want to speak
either languages with me, and thus help me better myself in these
languages.
2. You are
Hispanic.
3. You are
Indian,
be it the
from
India type or the
American Native type.
4. You like girls with a
big bottom, cuz that's what I
got.
5. You want to be
friends only. That's totally
acceptable!! And desirable, too.
6. Please be in the
Austin area if you're interested in more
than pen pals.
7. This is not an exclusive list. I enjoy and I am attracted to all
types of folks, but I can have a type, can't I?