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aprilyd2

27 / F / straight / Single

Austin, Texas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am unabashed, unashamed, and unafraid.

My Self-Summary

I just moved from Baltimore to Austin and already love my new city. I forgot what it was like to never walk alone. You always have a friend here, even if it's only for 30 seconds in the check-out line!

Anyway, about me.. I wake up singing, I sing in the shower, I sing REALLY loudly in the car (I'm that chick in the car next to you who's jamming out hardcore to whatever may be on her radio), and sometimes I burst out into song without realizing I'm doing it. I smile a lot, frown a lot, and make a lot of other different faces without knowing it. I have a lot of energy and bounce, I've been accused of being bubbly, and I am also disconcertingly direct.

I am also really bad with open-ended questions. :)

I'm looking for someone who makes me feel like I have put my finger into a light socket.

Oh, and I love flowers. That will be handy information later.

I have a tendency to browse through OkCupid profiles out of boredom. I wish I could say hi, but I am terrible at initiating conversation unless I'm really curious about something. Feel free to say hi if you stop by.

If you want to know more, check out my myspace. www.myspace.com/aprilyd

What I’m doing with my life

Learning my new home and trying to relax.

Trying to learn how to enjoy the journey, and not just always looking forward to the destination.

I’m really good at

Listening and understanding. Being direct. Seeing all sides (or at least 2 sides) of a situation. Staying calm in the face of a crisis... Then immediately melting down the second all is clear just to release all of that pent up emotion.

Oh, and balancing both a cat and a keyboard on my lap.

The first things people usually notice about me

My blue eyes and overwhelming power. You think I'm kidding, but I'm not. I've heard, "Wow you're such a strong person," so many times, that I've begun to believe it. This has nothing to do with physical attributes, by the way. If you're one of those who says he wants a strong woman but feels threatened by (and is therefore defensive to) them, please don't bother with me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) books: Fantasy, Sci/Fi, Humor, Forensic Science, Criminology
b) movies: Comedy, Romantic Comedy, Action, and when I was a kid, Horror, but I've been so disappointed in my "adult" years.
c) music: anything but rap. Seriously. My all-time favorite bands are Stone Temple Pilots (*mourn*), Red Hot Chili Peppers, Portishead, Maroon 5, Dave Matthews Band. I also like Tori Amos. I can't think of any more right now because I'm at work and my cds aren't around to sneak a peek at. I'm a lyrics goddess, though, so I'll probably recognize a lot of what anyone sings.

And by the way, I love the angry girl music of Ani Difranco.

d) foods: Food and I don't really agree. I recently became Vegan in order to address this love-hate relationship between food and my body. Health-wise, it's the best decision I've ever made. Emotionally? It's rough. I love cheese. :P I like anything social, I guess, like tapas or sushi.

The six things I could never do without

My computer, a good book to keep me distracted, a friend, sleep, music, Carmex.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My next art project. How light bends around or through certain objects. Light and shadows. What can be told by trace evidence. The perfect balance of characteristics that I look for in other human beings. The lyrics of a song. That tune in my head. The blue sky meeting the tall, green trees on the horizon in my home state and the peace I feel when I behold that sight (it keeps me sane).

On a typical Friday night I am

Feeling dazed.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't want to be your teacher. I don't want you to be mine. I'd like to be in a relationship, but I'm not so desperate for it that I'll put up with someone treating me like hell. Convince me. Other than that, I'll admit anything if the right question is asked in the right way.

You should message me if

You have something to say. I can't guarantee I'll have anything to say back, but I usually do. DO NOT message me if you want a casual relationship. I am NOT looking for sexual encounters, flings, swings or whatever have you. I want a relationship. It doesn't have to happen fast or immediately, but this is my idea behind dating - to find someone I can connect with, share ideals and ideas with, be a significant other with, for him to be more than a dick I can masturbate with.

Also message me if..
1. You speak Spanish or German - ESPECIALLY if you want to speak either languages with me, and thus help me better myself in these languages.
2. You are Hispanic.
3. You are Indian, be it the from India type or the American Native type.
4. You like girls with a big bottom, cuz that's what I got.
5. You want to be friends only. That's totally acceptable!! And desirable, too.
6. Please be in the Austin area if you're interested in more than pen pals.
7. This is not an exclusive list. I enjoy and I am attracted to all types of folks, but I can have a type, can't I?