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39 Whittier, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 12
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a real person with thoughts, opinions, and feelings. I am not just a profile, though I am trying to convey a speck of my identity here in this summary. I am looking for a companion to share the wonderful ideas, experiences, and inherent pains of life…someone who might use my shoulder and allow me to use his. Okay, maybe that’s too vivid a metaphor for some of the men out there…but for those of you who get it, you should keep reading.

I’ll warn you that I’m not like any other woman you’ve ever met. It’s difficult to elaborate since it’s hard to say on this page what makes me so different; I just know it’s a statement I’ve heard repeatedly. Are you seeking something unique? Same here---I want uncommon, not crazy; refined, not river-rat; witty, not mean-spirited; more fine wine, not moonshine; I like class, not crass; someone comfortable with himself, relaxed, even-keeled, not overly “passionate”, aka volatile or clingy; and of course chemistry! I’m looking for you, cause I know you're out there.

Are you genuine, driven and passionate, but also someone who appreciates laughter and can make me laugh? I want someone who's intelligent, not a pseudo intellectual. Even though I consider myself to be low maintenance, I'm definitely looking to be courted. I enjoy a man who likes to make the first move and who can make me smile and laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
having fun, living, working
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making my good friends laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
50 Shades of Grey, Girl With The Dragon Tattoo,
Crazy Stupid Love, Serendipity
Revenge, Sex and The City, Whitney
Bruno Mars, Katy Perry, LMFAO
Italian and seafood
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, my friends, cell phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how can we achieve world peace
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having fun
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
know me better to find out
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have more to say than "Hi! Hi there! Hey there. Hello. You are cute/pretty/have a great picture. How are you? How's your weekend/day going? Wanna talk/chat? What r u doing tonight/this weekend? Do u want to meet? Can I buy u a drink/dinner? What's up beautiful/sexy?". This is the theme for 98% of the messages I've received.

Can you say more than the 98% of the cliches I get? If so, I would love to get your message. You'll be the top 2% worth talking to that is clever, witty, intelligent, and charming and I would love to meet you. Can you charm & intrigue me with what you say? Asking me questions like "what do you do?" or other questions like a job interview is boring.