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21 Cambridge, UK Man


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  • Ages 20–40
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  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Fluently), Esperanto (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Saluton! I'm studying Linguistics at uni and I have no idea what I'll do after that. I'm genderqueer (they/them, he/him, or she/her pronouns) and body/sex positive. I tend to be attracted to male-presenting and nonbinary people.

I'm fairly outgoing but I prefer a smaller amount of closer friends than having loads. That's all I'm going to say about my personality because shit's hard to define. I'm interested in queer politics, in particular rolequeer ideology. As you can see from my sidebar, I'm very into language learning, too.

I really enjoy travelling. I've been able to use Esperanto to travel quite a bit for cheap/free. I also write a blog with some friends about social justice issues in Esperanto called Egalecen.

I've recently started identifying as aromantic, and you might be wondering why I'd be on a dating site if that's the case, but I've found it's an OK place to make friends (some of whom I like to cuddle/have sex with but like not necessarily).
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently studying Linguistics at Cambridge.
I’m really good at
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Languages. I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I have a knack for them and love to learn new ones.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my lazy eye but they're too polite to say it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I want to be one of those people who reads loads, but I find it hard to make time for it. I think a recent favourite would be Sekretaj Sonetoj, which is an amazingly well-written erotic story in sonnet-form in Esperanto.

I'm into fun comedy films like Mean Girls and Pitch Perfect, but I also really like psychological thrillers. The Lion King used to be my favourite Disney, though now I think it's The Hunchback of Notre Dame.

TV shows: Bob's Burgers, Parks and Recreation, Brooklyn 99.

I don't actually listen to music very much. I'm pretty open to suggestions generally I think.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Self love, languages/Linguistics, sustenance, the Internet, human contact (maybe), chocolate, cute animals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I want to create an artificial island with a commune of Esperanto-speakers on it.

I also think about smashing the cisheteropatriarchy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, clubbing, or on Tumblr.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have written erotica before (it was about demons).
You should message me if
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You're a hip and cool queer person.

Please don't message me if you are a prescriptivist (seriously) or racist/homophobic/transphobic/ableist etc.

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