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29 M Madison, WI

My Details

Last Online
Apr 19
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I'm pretty happy-go-lucky. I make a lot of spontaneous decisions. Plans are hard, but I'm pretty good at making it up as I go. I am very irreverent and like making fun of things that I think people take too seriously, especially if there's any sort of social stigma about it, so social issues are a favorite outlet for my sarcasm.

I have two adorable cats. Their favorite time to play is when I'm trying to get things done. They think they're helping, and they may be right. I can be very boisterous but am sometimes quiet around new people, depending on my mood.

I don't like trivia. I find it trivial..

Humorous irony = <3

I am extremely liberal (for the United States..., which is ABSURDLY backward and conservative in my opinion), and am not shy about expressing my opinions, analyzing arguments (or lack thereof), and psychoanalyzing people (in a good way, not a 'I'm a creepy in your head person sort of way'... psychology is AWESOME). I am an INFP or INTP depending on the day and circumstances (I have no idea why OKC thinks I'm more extroverted.. doesn't give me much faith in those personality bars). I am intense and loud (at times) and quite and reserved (at times), and if you don't like that or can't handle that variability, then you will probably not want to spend a significant amount of time with me.

"I don't read" is a relationship death knell, akin to "I enjoy upsetting kittens."

I just noticed OKC has a spot for relationship type in the details section, indicating degrees of monogamy. How progressive of them.
What I’m doing with my life
A lot of activism. Being a news junkie. Working at your favorite grocery store.
I’m really good at
Most all things kinesthetic, especially yoga, dancing and massages. I've also been told I'm a pretty decent frisbee player.

Analytic thought. Arguing. Heckling. Getting along with animals and young children. Accidentally saying inappropriate things: open mouth, insert foot. Being happy in the moment. Being a goof.

Cooking. I like using my hands and my own creativity to make a final product, and since I love food as well I've found that cooking is one of my favorite pastimes, even if I don't get to do it properly nearly often enough.

Listening to what other people are communicating, not just what is said but how, with what body language, tone of voice, etc. I once heard once that something like 70+% of communication is non-verbal, and I would totally agree.
The first things people usually notice about me
My body language probably. I have been told I have a distinctive walk. That and my adorably expressive face X)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really enjoy reading well written thought provoking fiction, quality sci-fi/fantasy, and anything with a philosophical, sociological, or psychological bent to it. So long as it explores the human psyche I'll probably like it.

Murakami, Vonnegut, George Lakoff (cognitive scientist / political philosopher.. he's the shit), George R. R. Martin (I love authors who kill off characters), Lois McMaster Bujold, Guy Gavriel Kay, C. J. Cherryh (and no, I have no idea how she pronounces that). There's a lot more but those are some biggies.

Music, lessee. Hard question, I know very little about music but I love it! Short answer: Pandora is my DJ. Seriously, I am so confused by modern music genre definitions.

My favorite food is:
-Big bloody pieces of dead animals. The little cute ones taste the best :P Vegetarians, that's supposed to be a joke! Es funny joke.. I'm a pretty decent vegetarian cook as well. Vegan cooking is way harder! My friend keeps saying she'll teach me, but she hasn't yet :C
-Things with really flavorful sauces in general, curries, pastas, stir fries, glazes, andonandonandon.
-Cheese! Especially French cheeses. Sorry Wisconsin, I love you but you just don't quiiiiite compare. Except for your 10 year aged cheddar, that stuff is to die for.
-My favorite food however is food I've cooked myself for other people. It's hard to be my friend and avoid dinner parties and grilling excursions.
The six things I could never do without
Social interaction
My body, all of it, intact, with no paralysis
Some means of fun physical exercise

aaaand let's be honest, the internet. It's how I get all my news and a lot of my entertainment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Body awareness, social and personal psychology, social justice, why people do what they do.

Political reform, climate change, plutocracy, direct action and civil disobedience.
On a typical Friday night I am
"Oh right, it's Friday.."

Working, or chilling with my roommates is a safe bet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a thing for assertive women. I like shy people too, but outgoing assertive people make me feel comfortable and are usually better at engaging me since I tend to be more introverted and lost in my head.

I think I must be bad at writing messages on this site. I'm sure I come across as moderately odd.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're sick of stupid people and looking for someone who's going to intellectually challenge you.

You have a well thought out ethical world-view and your actions, not just your words, reflect that.

You are awake. Yes, that is a test, and if you have no idea what I may be talking about then odds are you're not.