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aravisalistair

36 F San Antonio, TX

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm working hard to regain my inner peace and balance. It's a process.

I have no lack of self confidence so someone easily intimidated would not do well with me. I am by no means conceited, just secure in who I am. I won't lie and say appearances don't matter because they do. I am not attracted to unattractive women, if that makes me seem vain or shallow, so be it. I am neither but the right person will know that. And because I don't want anyone to waste their time I will also add that I'm not attracted to studs or big girls. That's just my preference, it doesn't mean I think negatively of you.

I won't do anything out character to try to please someone. I'm a nerd. I love to read across various genres and love a well-read woman. I stay informed on current events and get agitated when people find it unimportant to do the same. I possess a calm demeanor, unless something (like someone's ignorance) disturbs it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising my child and pursuing a PhD in English.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, writing, sharing, procrastinating, finding amazing books to read, friendship, loving the one I'm with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, my tattoos, and my seemingly nonchalant attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books (this is just a small sampling of my favorites) The Brothers Karamozov, The Legend of Drizzt, Arabat, The Great and Secret Show, The Living Blood
Movies: Interview with a Vampire, Meet Joe Black, Original Sin, Legends of the Fall
TV shows: Spartacus Blood and Sand, Game of Thrones, Falling Skies, Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad, Orange is the New Black.
Music: R&B, neo-soul, classical, rock, pop
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My sanity/peace
2. Books
3. My glasses
4. My own space
5. Skin moisturizers
6. Bathing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How no matter what I do, some things in life are just so random. Some idiot can be texting while driving and smash into my car and change my whole life (this almost happened to me, but the driver swerved and avoided hitting me just in time). You just never know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Likely reading and researching something for school and/or writing/grading papers. I have cable again for the first time in three years so I'm caught up in a few different shows. Nothing extremely exciting is happening with me right now. I'm cool with that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to work for that information..
I’m looking for
  • Gay girls only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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If I intrigue you or you would like to know more. If you can hold a decent conversation. If you think we might vibe well. Please don't message me with "hi" and expect a response; no matter how cute you are I will not reply.