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arcanaspade

24 Atlanta, GA Genderfluid

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:44pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Student
Status
Single
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Happiness is like a butterfly..." Is basically the core of my beliefs on dating right now, and while that informs my outreach it certainly does not preclude it. I'm a traveler who's dtarting graduate school at Southern Illinois in the Fall. I'm primarily focused on living the best life I can, and if that includes another person in it, all the better. I believe every human interaction has some value to it and I'm always willing to meet new people. Who knows, maybe a strong connection will be forged? If not, it's cool, just looking to have some fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently wandering around the country for the summer, seeing what there is to see, looking for big sky country in the Dakotas/Montana area and then settling into Carbondale, IL come August.
Looking into things like performance studies, biotecture, and intersectionality, among other topics. I guess everything is all tied together in some sort of greater pursuit of truth it's just the digging deeper that's difficult.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
holding long conversations, with numerous tangents. Especially good at remembering where these conversations went into rabbit holes and bringing them back. Also I have the best sense of fashion ever. Think bright-yellow shirt with a sleeping Thomas Kinkade kitten on it and you've got my jam, if only it had more garish neon.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not sure, it's usually not something that I inquire about when meeting people. Having met a few new people, people tend to notice several verbal tics of mine fairly often, or the fact that I can be very blunt and to-the-point when I talk. I'm not very good at small talk so I tend to not engage in it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Brave New World, Sandman, Song of Solomon, Oryx & Crake, House of Leaves, A Song of Ice and Fire, The Handmaid's Tale, Kafka on the Shore Travels in Hyperreality, Comm Theory textbooks, Heart of Darkness, Naked Lunch,

Movies: The Shining, David Lynch, Jodorowsky, and some other pretentious jazz.

Shows: Community, Revolutionary Girl Utena, Farscape, Twin Peaks, The X-Files, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Star Trek (TNG mainly, but I do enjoy TOS), The Prisoner, The Twilight zone, The Prisoner

Music: little bit of Leonard Cohen, some CocoRosie, Dan Deacon, Joanna Newsom, people tell me that I just like the sound of indie-sounding acoustic ladies and I couldn't tell them they were wrong.

Food: In general I'm fine with most foods, I try to avoid red meat when possible, and foods with a mushy texture bother me (applesauce, mashed potatoes, etc.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the great outdoors
There's a sort of high I get when I get really passionate about something, a conversation, or an activity, or a piece of art, and I love this high, I call it my 'fire' and it's a big part of my personality
travel
games (of pretty much any variety: I think games are some of the best indicators of what a culture values).
art
transportation (I'm not a car enthusiast by any stretch of the imagination, but my car has gone many places with me, it's gotten me across the country and back and I have a great fondness for it).
New experiences, or at least the pursuit of them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How OKCupid can manage to find questions which are sometimes oversimple and seem to also stretch into some strange amount of depth. For example, "Which is bigger, the Sun or the Earth?"

The best way to integrate art with social movement practices in order to better affect social change in the world.

How pretentious the last thing I entered in here was. (and how inevitably I'll sabotage myself by posting something which I'll later regard as lacking in some fashion and will edit only to repeat the process again and again).

How anyone would dare do anything but abandon their car at a red light at 2 AM.

Where I'll travel to next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking of how male posturing is really a vicious cycle. Going out with folks or trying to find something new. Researching horticulture.
You should message me if
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Anything here resonates with you, if you'd like to get to know me or ask any questions about the contents of my profile. If you'd like to meet up and talk in person, if you have an interest in performance art, discussing feminism, or any of that good sociology. If you want to believe. If you don't want to believe. If you want to argue about something, if you're bored, If you want to think up how to change OKCupid. If you want to think up how to change the world (and do it), if you want to jam, pretty much anything except proselytizing.