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arch789

37 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:13am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English, Romanian

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sure, everyone is a rockstar here... skipping the obvious Machu Picchu and bathroom mirror self portrait, the excitement probably drops to half...

I care about my health/physique, quite a bit into athletic/outdoor activities. I am social, charismatic and kind-hearted. I do yoga and swim three times a week. I floss every day. I am a Volvo driver, front bumper cracked... I drove an SUV from SF to Argentina. Never been to Paris.

Should I mention that I was raised in a family of wine makers, somewhere in Transylvania? My both grandparents distilled their own whisky. And I grew up milking my own cows. But this probably works against me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Architect, registered.
Not famous.

I bad with selfies, but I post architecture + sketches here -
http://instagram.com/danhogman/
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Freehand drawing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My super-thick accent... no, I am not from here, but staying!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dark chocolate
My sketchbook
The ocean
My calendar
Rain?
"That special someone" - not really a "thing" but really important otherwise
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Snickering at the hapless tattoo victim.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't flirt. Just straight talk. I am a boring date.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- if you are looking for a relationship. Well, not immediately, but eventually...
- you are a professional, good career and brains, looking for similar.
- you date for a good reason, not simply to avoid loneliness... And no 'lol' please.