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34 F Hong Kong, Hong Kong

My Details

Last Online
Mar 25
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
accordions, horses & ponies, edible landscaping & gardening, foraging, pick your own fruit orchards, my sewing machine, polaroids, mechanical pencils, photo-booths, apiculture, bicycles, urban chickens, swimming holes, serendipity, antarctica, absurdly small handwriting, wearing hearts on sleeves
What I’m doing with my life
at the moment - i'm working on an art show for a museum in beijing. mostly i live in amsterdam. i moved from philly to amsterdam a year and a half ago -- not sure if i will stay, but i just adopted a dutch cat, so i'm becoming a bit more attached i suppose. in my past life--before i moved--these are some other things i was doing: running an art space, learning to play accordion, and investigating good swimming spots. i'd like to learn dutch, but right now i'm trying to work on my rusty chinese.
I’m really good at
dreaming, scheming, laughing, and making cocktails
The first things people usually notice about me
straight girls: my hair
queer girls: my hair
straight guys: my ass
queer guys: i'll get back to you about this
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
reading -
always: don delillo and jeanette winterson
books & ephemera currently next to my bed: moonwalking with einstein, artificial hells, just kids, and the left hand of darkness

listening -
animal collective, anthony and the johnsons, antonio carlos jobim, arthur russell, astor piazzolla, battles, beach house, beirut, bjork, bon iver, camera obscura, comet gain, david byrne, dead meadow, dirty projectors, dirty three, fleet foxes, fleetwood mac, frank ocean, fugazi, godspeed, grimes, iron & wine, lightning bolt, lungfish, m83, mum, my bloody valentine, neil young, portishead, pulp, purity ring, rodan, the roots, a silver mt zion, songs: ohia, sun airways, wolves in the throne room, the xx, yann tiersen, blah blah, etc etc.

watching -
always: wong kar wai, jean-pierre jeunet (mostly)
it's complicated: wes anderson, coen brothers, david lynch, and werner herzog, charlie kaufman, christopher guest

eating -
see number one and number four below
also i'm a vegetarian who on occasion falls off the wagon
The six things I could never do without
1. brunch at brunch o' clock & breakfast for dinner
2. a cozy bed
3. fond memories
4. chocolate
5. silliness
6. a good dance party
I spend a lot of time thinking about
many many things. but i don't think i want to share my innermost thoughts with the internets. sorry.
On a typical Friday night I am
i have to say that the idea of a typical friday night sounds pretty boring. if i'm suppose to make it clear if i like to go out or if i'd rather stay at home and watch a movie, then the answer is yes, but i'm not biased towards fridays. i like going out to the club and staying in and watching movies on any day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i know i'm suppose to put some pithy little ditty here to lead you to be more curious about me...

but instead, i want to clarify my interest in "casual sex" as listed below. i tempted not to though, because it has led to a lot of great message fodder, especially in the last few months. i can't say i don't enjoy getting messages like "hey girl, i'm a 20 year old hung stud. wanna talk?" woah.

my definition of casual sex isn't a never-ending stream of one-night stands with strangers. i suppose i clicked this because i'm interested in considering a range of possible relationships/ friendships/ interactions. to clarify though, i would want to have some sort of friendship with anyone that i sleep with, but that also doesn't mean i necessarily wanna spend the next month/year/decade/etc hanging out with you and only you. ok? ok!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
if you wanna. but i'll be honest that i'm pretty bad at responding. i'm somewhat allergic to email generally and i'm skittish about meeting people this way. that being said i've met some lovely people lately on here, so maybe my allergy is subsiding.

oh also, you should put more pictures of yourself on your profile! i'm curious what you look like!

my favorite recent message: "hi, I just wanted to convey that you look great and pretty young for your age." ha! and uh, thanks?

(P.S. if the irony is lost on you as to why this is my new favorite message, prolly better not to email me.)