Sign Up!

OkCupid is Free Online Dating.

Join Now!

You're only scraping the surface of OkCupid's goodness. Join and indulge.

Sign Up Now

Site Stats:
Everyone Else:
  • 434,996,248 Q's A'ed
  • 3,545,035 photos uploaded
  • 409 Q's A'ed per user
Advertisement

You're not logged in. For all features and access, log in to your account. Don't have one? Sign up! OkCupid is free!

Log In to View Match Scores

No first contact rating (eh?)

kind, thoughtful, and changeable

My self-summary Propose an edit

I am a poet, a librarian and a mum. I am good at empathy, bad at practicality. When I know you well I will make you laugh, give you great advice and never betray you. I love the outdoors but need my home comforts. I care less about money and achievement than happiness and integrity. I am probably something of a hippy in fact (I'm even a vegan), BUT fyi I find that poi thing and anyone who does it incredibly irritating. Tolerant of most other things except arrogance and pretension. I am also a dilettante with a short attention span - this is why I write poems and not novels.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I work in a language resource centre/library at a university for half the week, and look after my daughter (born December 2006) for the other half. Other things I do with my life: read almost constantly, write (poems, reviews, attempts at crime fiction), solve crosswords, play backgammon, go for walks, potter about.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Listening. Understanding. Writing. Worrying. Multitasking.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Glasses. Nice smile. I may occasionally appear to a) hate you or b) have a stick up my bum but this is because I am SHY. Honest.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Before answering this I must point out that I don't believe that the things you like = who you are.

Books: Hitch Hikers Guide to the Galaxy, Persuasion, Anne of Green Gables, Howard's End, The Princess Bride, Watchmen, The Member of the Wedding, and lots of poetry. Favourite authors are probably P.G. Wodehouse, Carson McCullers, Jane Austen - how GIRLY, yuck - and Raymond Carver.

Films: The Big Lebowski. Oh there are more but the question is making me a bit tired.

Music is too hard. This is TV instead:Peep Show, The West Wing, The Office, Spaced, Human Remains, Scrubs, Lost.

Food: any old vegan feast will do, but especially chilli, risotto, curry, and Maya Gold chocolate.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

1. something to read 2. something to write with 3. hugs 4. conversation 5. (this used to say cheese. How wrong I was.) 6. tea

Hm, it just occurred to me that I should have said public libraries as well, although (1) might cover that I suppose.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Did I do anything really stupid/weird today? Have any of my loved ones been in an accident? Have I paid the rent? What shall I have for dinner? Is the world completely fucked or only a little bit fucked?

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Watching DVDs (probably a TV comedy or a rubbish 80s film), eating either a delicious home-cooked vegan meal or some chips, depending how lazy we've been, maybe drinking wine.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I like sudoku. And The Archers.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You want to.

Contact Settings

For your messages to appear highlighted in archel's mailbox:

To change your own contact settings, visit the contact settings page.

My personality awards

Questions She Cares About View all

The Skinny

How Well We Know her

archel: 1000 questions

Ethnicity
N/A
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French, *Sign Language

Similar Users

An image of TheFreshPegg
TheFreshPegg
Middlesbrough, United Kingdom
less political
An image of fashgal
fashgal
London, United Kingdom
less trusting
An image of _noiseuse
_noiseuse
Paris, France
more extroverted
An image of DollyDimpleLDN
DollyDimpleLDN
London, United Kingdom
more pessimistic
An image of miss-sassy
miss-sassy
London, United Kingdom
more capitalistic
An image of Sulphurdream
Sulphurdream
Duffel, Belgium
more pessimistic
An image of CharleyBarley
CharleyBarley
London, United Kingdom
more independent
An image of LesFauves
LesFauves
Manchester, United Kingdom
less emotional

Message Her

So now what?

You should definitely send archel a note and say hi to her.