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archimedes22

41 M Tempe, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:01am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi. This is an experiment in what being totally honest will actually attract in others. Yes, we all want someone who is (fill in the long list of positive attributes that can normally be assumed that everyone wants, but doesn't really tell you anything), and we all can't live without the basics of life (air, water, oxygen, sunlight, food, people, etc...), which is just more filler information that doesn't say much, except that you haven't put much thought into your answer.

So, I'm skipping all that formal small talk and getting to the heart of the matter, which is more telling about my personality than telling you that I like what every other sane person likes. I like using lists because they make things look clear and easy to read, which is also like me! Here are some good lists that not only tell you what I am looking for, but also tell you about who I am. I am looking for an equal, so everything I want from my partner is something I also bring to the equation. Here are my lists:

Characteristics that I am looking for in a woman:
She can confront others and hold them accountable without resorting to anger or abusive behavior. (Assertive but not aggressive)
She knows what she likes and doesn't have to make that into what I like. (Interdependent, not codependent)
She has her career and earned it on her own. (Self-reliant)
She should also take care of herself. (No smoking, illegal drugs, or obesity issues.)
She has her own car, place, money, job, and life. (Independent)
She doesn't need a partner, but wants one. (Appreciative and possibly self-actualized)
She is authentic, but also hast tact on when it's fun to be crass. (Adaptively multifaceted)
She loves dogs and is a responsible owner who provides consistency. (Committed)
She practices what she preaches, especially when it's not easy. (Has integrity)
She helps others by teaching them to fish, rather than giving fish away. (Carefully caring)
She laughs only at things she sincerely finds funny, even if it might be morbid. (Honest)

These are my quirks that I'd love if you also shared:
Dislikes large crowds of drunk people, but still drinks socially.
Dislikes driving in rush hour traffic, but loves to go on drives on day trips.
Not a sports fanatic, but can enjoy watching a game just hanging out with friends.
Is literate, but also loves to see movies and TV shows based on books without bitching about how much better the book was.
Won't shy away from an argument, but also knows how to argue effectively to resolve things.
Is health conscious but also indulges in guilty pleasures occasionally. (Desserts, mixed drinks, junk food at the movies, deep fried fair food, etc..)

Bonus points for the following interests:
Sic-fi
Trivia
Music
Gadgets and technology
How things work

Here are my deal breakers:
If you run from your issues or are not open to learning if you have any issues, then we will not get along because I will outgrow you.
If you don't like conflict and try to please people just because it's easier, then I would run you over and lose respect for you.
If you have a cat, then I will be allergic to you and your cat. If you have a solution to my cat allergies, then this becomes a non-issue and I will admire you for being a genius.
If you are an extremist of any sort and can't see how another perspective may also be valid, then we will frustrate each other and I will think that you are limited and intolerant.

I would like a woman who has had her metal tested through the challenges of life, but is not cynical or jaded; someone who can still hope for the best but knows how to deal with the worst. I want a woman who has stared down her own demons and is at peace with the imperfections and scars that make her unique, resilient, and stronger for having made it through her darkest hour. That, to me, would be the grace and beauty of a soul with whom I would want to spend my time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be authentic and live with intention.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, trivia and problem solving.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and dimples, and then how not foreign I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - I'm not a big reader, but I like for people to tell me about books. My theory is that one can only retain a maximum of 70% of what one reads, so getting someone to tell me about a book accomplishes getting the gist of the story, but only much faster. Plus, it is an interactive process rather than an independent one.
Movies - Star Wars (episode 4), Ferris Beuler's Day Off, The Breakfast Club, Seven, Seven Psychopaths, and Cloud Atlas
Music - I have the following stations on Pandora: Adele, Thomas Newman, Muddy Waters, Black Eyed Peas, Deadmau5, and Coldplay.
Food - sushi, fried chicken and waffles, pho, spinach, portobello mushroom burgers, hummus, and steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of purpose
My dog.
Honesty from my friends
Trust from the ones that I love
Respect for myself
Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my life will bring next, if I am doing my best with my clients, and what my goals are for the next few years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to spend time with friends or watching TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't play video games anymore because I was once so badly addicted (determined to finish the game) that I lost an entire week of time. This happened when I was still in college in 2000, and I have been sworn off of video gaming ever since.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you are drama free and love to talk about life.