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31 M Monroe, CT

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Mostly anything
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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By the way, right out of the gate. If at any point we talk and or meet and you are " not feeling it " tell me right then. Don't make me waste my time for nothing. Be an adult, I know it's hard but it's more respectable.

I've decided that nothing I could write could possibly describe me enough. I am obsessed with music ( all genres ), I wear nailpolish ( colors, not black ) I could be found playing golf, doing anything outdoors, going to a concert,making candles,having a fire,meditating. I'm a very broad individual.

I'm a living piece of art. I show it by the way I move,the way I walk and the way I talk. I have no boundaries and there isn't anything I can't do. If I am one thing its committed. Whether it's to doing something or doing nothing at all, when my mind is made up its made up. I wake up every day and just try my best. I won't always succeed and not everything is gonna go my way. There is too much madness in the world to let myself be consumed with it. Its all relative and on my last day it won't matter. Love, Laughter, and living are what matter.

Side note: Since OKC thinks people can only be Straight,Homosexual, or Bisexual I went with Bisexual. Even though I don't classify myself in any of those three categories. I care for who I care for.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently getting my music career back on track. I am in a full time band. This consumes a lot of my time but its what I want out of life. My goal is to make a living strictly off drumming. Be it from touring,giving lessons,being a session drummer, but as long as I am drumming I am happy.

Seriously - you need to hear this. <--- This is the debut album!

If you like what you hear we have a couple upcoming shows.

August 8th - Bleachers - Bristol,CT
August 15th - Rock Against Rape Benefit - Stamford,CT
August 29th - Wedding Party - Meriden,CT
Sept 6th - Spaceland Ballroom - Hamden,CT
Oct 3rd - Sirens of Metal Festival - Detroit,MI

You should probably be aware that I am slightly addicted to drums and have a fairly massive collection. I currently have 35 snare drums and 23 different drum kits. And I have no intention to stop collecting.

Also - as the career and band is becoming a lot more serious in it's nature, I am planning on a two month tour starting sometime in January / February. Aside from my main band I have offers to be a touring drummer for others.If I am with someone I will be loyal, but be aware this is what I want from my life and I will be gone for months, years on end. You can either handle this or you can't, I'm just putting it on the table.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh
Saying things the way they are in a comical fashion
Learning something new
Building fires
Driving Stick
Creating random works of art
Being myself
Not Falling Down
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Piercings, Tattoo's and Long Hair. I mean really, I stand out. READ THIS:: My ears are stretched. I wear 4 gauge earrings in both ears. This keeps coming up as an issue so you have been notified. And since I'm on the subject you should be aware of my future plans. I am working on a complete body suit of Tattoos ( everything is already planned and mapped out ), I am filling both my ears with piercings, 4 gauge all the way. And I plan on getting silicone implants underneath certain Tattoo's once they are finished. I am a work in progress and I will not stop for anyone. This is something I've always wanted for myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Crow,Forest Gump,Reign Over Me, Hellraiser,Nightmare On Elm Street, Seven,Anything with Jim Carey,Meet The Parents,Finding Nemo,Dune,Star Trek ( Both series ). I enjoy most movies with the exception of very few.

Music: Well I'll listen to all of it. I have over 800 cd's in my collection. And while that may sound like a lot, there is a lot I don't have.

Books: The Crow - J.O.Barr,
Be Here Now - Ram Dass,
Awakening The Buddha Within - Lama Surya Das,
The Ghost Rider, The Masked Rider, Traveling Music - Neil Peart,
Life's Little Annoyances - Ian Urbina,
The Wisdom Of No Escape - Pema Chodron
Zen and The Art Of Motorcycle Maintenance - Robert M. Pirsig

There is a lot more I've read, but these are the most recent that have bearing on my current life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Drums -
My Cats -
Music -
Literature -
Love -
My Patience -
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Universe and Religions.
And why it is so damn difficult to find a person of interest who is in depth.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about or staying home relaxing. I suppose that's really any night of the week though. It all depends on my mood and what's going on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is a message I received. " I'm not attracted to you but ironically look similar to a guy I know that I am attracted to. I use to like the piercing/gauged ear look but have outgrown it. You have what appears to be a good bone structure and could benefit from a rock star makeover. Cut your hair (Mohawk maybe) and lose some of the jewelry (it's distracting in a bad way).
You're a Leo which immediately makes me run in the other direction. "

I would like to add this - I will not change myself for anyone, ever. You don't like, fine. But if you think for even a second that I will alter myself for your benefit, you are insane. Could benefit from a makeover, I'm not a god damn TV show for your amusement.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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You are not a sheep. You don't blindly follow and have a voice of your own. And don't be afraid to be a freak, no one is the same, normal doesn't exist. I love me!