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49 Flat Rock, NC Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 14
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Two-year college
Doesn’t want kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've lived and traveled all over the world and after calling New York City home for several years, I'm an actor, a writer, an amateur chef and pretty much think there are few things better than a big dinner party with a lot of fr-amily (friends/family)
I've have seen enough of what I DON'T want, to know that in order to get what I do want, I gotta go after it. Duh... but sometimes it takes a while for that realization to hit folks. (this applies to work, life, love, etc). Not at ALL into the bar/club scene. If I go to one, I like my local dive.
Have a sense of humor about life, people--if I didn't, I would have been in the loony bin a looooooong time ago and think that if you DON'T have a sense of humor about yourself, then really--what's the point. Love to laugh until I fall over backwards, believe in being there whole heartedly with support for the person who I'm with. Giving it, accepting it and getting there together.
Sounds a bit like a bumper sticker, but there it is.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an insatiable reader.
And... I used to play the viola in an orchestra. Having forgotten EVERYTHING about it, except how to hold the thing... I have been thinking about learning how to play the violin.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sense of humour. And oh yeah--I'm tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by David Sedaris, Augusten Burroughs, C. S. Lewis,Anne Rice, Leo Tolstoy and Rebecca Wells, sushi, Tuscan anything, French anything, Japanese anything... within reason, The Lion in Winter, What Dreams May Come, Roseanne, The X Files, Stargate Atlantis, Firefly, War and Peace, The Chronicles of Narnia, Stephens Sondheim & Schwartz...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Dog
The internet
Good Food/Wine
Close friends
a Passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next gig
The next meal
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking something with a bunch of friends, going to the theatre, Sitting, slack-jawed in front of Netflix on Demand. Sad, I know... but it's a new acquisition and I have Game of Thrones to catch up on... Yes, I am a proud Nerd.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is that I'm actually a pretty private person. Leaving it at that until ya know me better!
You should message me if
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if any of the first part of that essay appeals/applies.
If you have a sense of humor
If you are not an axe murderer.
If you take care of yourself
If you believe that being smart is as sexy as having a perfect body
(If you have both of those, then please message immediately... :) )