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48 M East Flat Rock, NC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 7
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I've lived and traveled all over the world and after calling New York City home for several years, I live near Asheville, North Carolina. I'm an actor, a writer, an amateur chef and pretty much think there are few things better than a big dinner party with a lot of fr-amily (friends/family)
I've have seen enough of what I DON'T want, to know that in order to get what I do want, I gotta go after it. Duh... but sometimes it takes a while for that realization to hit folks. (this applies to work, life, love, etc). Not at ALL into the bar/club scene. If I go to one, I like my local dive.
Have a sense of humor about life, people--if I didn't, I would have been in the loony bin a looooooong time ago and think that if you DON'T have a sense of humor about yourself, then really--what's the point. Love to laugh until I fall over backwards, believe in being there whole heartedly with support for the person who I'm with. Giving it, accepting it and getting there together.
Sounds a bit like a bumper sticker, but there it is.
What I’m doing with my life
I am an insatiable reader.
And... I used to play the viola in an orchestra. Having forgotten EVERYTHING about it, except how to hold the thing... I have been thinking about learning how to play the violin.
The first things people usually notice about me
Sense of humour. And oh yeah--I'm tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by David Sedaris, Augusten Burroughs, C. S. Lewis, Leo Tolstoy and Rebecca Wells, sushi, Tuscan anything, French anything, Japanese anything... within reason, The Lion in Winter, What Dreams May Come, Roseanne, The X Files, Stargate Atlantis, Firefly, War and Peace, The Chronicles of Narnia, Stephens Sondheim & Schwartz...
The six things I could never do without
The internet
Good Food/Wine
Close friends
a Passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next gig
The next meal
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking something with a bunch of friends, going to the theatre, Sitting, slack-jawed in front of Netflix on Demand. Sad, I know... but it's a new acquisition and I have Battlestar Galactica to catch up on... Yes, I am a proud Nerd.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that I'm actually a pretty private person. Leaving it at that until ya know me better!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
if any of the first part of that essay appeals/applies.
If you have a sense of humor
If you are not an axe murderer.
If you take care of yourself
If you believe that being smart is as sexy as having a perfect body
(If you have both of those, then please message immediately... :) )