I've have seen enough of what I DON'T want, to know that in order to get what I do want, I gotta go after it. Duh... but sometimes it takes a while for that realization to hit folks. (this applies to work, life, love, etc). Not at ALL into the bar/club scene. If I go to one, I like my local dive.
Have a sense of humor about life, people--if I didn't, I would have been in the loony bin a looooooong time ago and think that if you DON'T have a sense of humor about yourself, then really--what's the point. Love to laugh until I fall over backwards, believe in being there whole heartedly with support for the person who I'm with. Giving it, accepting it and getting there together.
Sounds a bit like a bumper sticker, but there it is.