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49 • New Orleans, LA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–47
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 18
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from two-year college
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, Spanish (Okay), French (Fluently)
I've have seen enough of what I DON'T want, to know that in order to get what I do want, I gotta go after it. Duh... but sometimes it takes a while for that realization to hit folks. (this applies to work, life, love, etc). Not at ALL into the bar/club scene. If I go to one, I like my local dive.
Have a sense of humor about life, people--if I didn't, I would have been in the loony bin a looooooong time ago and think that if you DON'T have a sense of humor about yourself, then really--what's the point. Love to laugh until I fall over backwards, believe in being there whole heartedly with support for the person who I'm with. Giving it, accepting it and getting there together.
Sounds a bit like a bumper sticker, but there it is.
And... I used to play the viola in an orchestra. Having forgotten EVERYTHING about it, except how to hold the thing... I have been thinking about learning how to play the violin.
The next meal
If you have a sense of humor
If you are not an axe murderer.
If you take care of yourself
If you believe that being smart is as sexy as having a perfect body
(If you have both of those, then please message immediately... :) )
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