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ardingale

23 / M / straight / Single

Columbia, South Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Nice, Intellectual, and Laid Back.

My Self-Summary

I'm a fairly odd person, not like the "wooooow, stay away from you" just that normal people scare me, I'm intelligent, and have no desire to act in any way normal or mainstream. If you consider yourself, normal, you can either apply to become odd, simply by hanging out with me, or I can analyze you and discover how truly odd you are. (I've heard it's an enlightening experience)

I think people need to loosen up and embrace the oddities about themselves, after all, without our imagination and quirks, we're just what our genes and parents made us.... who wants to be JUST LIKE your parents?

I do tend to be somewhat judgmental when I'm first meeting someone, because once I know you, I forgive practically anything.

I am a gamer, not obsessively, but I do play D&D most weeks, and computer games if I'm bored.. I can't get rid of that aspect of my life, but, it's fairly mild, and you will get many cool points if you can embrace that, or better yet jump in.

School is in session, so I am either working or at school every day, however I have the nights off, so, feel free to talk, you never know, you might find someone interesting, or at least a coffee partner.

I've been discovering recently that while physically and mentally I can take a beating like nobody else... emotionally I'm squishy, so take it easy on me! lol.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now, work, and getting better after sticking a machete through my foot... apparently years of sword practice does not render one immune to stupid slips, like clearing a yard wearing flip-flops, and then forgetting where one's feet are placed..

YAY, Obama is trying really hard to royally hose my pharmacy career.... but, I discovered that one of my favorite hobbies, that I'm apparently good at, you can make a living at... so, now I'm going to school for massage therapy!

I’m really good at

Guessing random trivia about people, or figuring out what happened to make you be in a bad mood, unless I'm the cause of it. Giving advice, although I can't evaluate my own relationships so logically.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, because every now and then they do something strange....usually just turn brilliant green from what I've heard, but the weird ones...

Also my personality, I'm too damned nice for my own good(or so says everyone I know).

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Most fantasy, chronicles of narnia, xanth, dragonriders of pern, vampire chronicles, and ringworld all come to mind, but this changes.

Lord of the rings, yes they actually did a good job on it. Star Wars, I know I'm a nutjob, but I grew up watching it, and yes, I love it. Most of the modern action movies I like, also a fair amount of drama and comedy, and well... most anything. (yes this means chick flicks) I avoid stupid humor though, it's aggravating to watch, because you can't help but feel embarrassed for the poor sap who got stuck playing the part.

80's rock, and anything related, some classical, anything that sounds good or has good lyrics. Also J-pop and K-pop lately, got introduced/hooked.

The six things I could never do without

Cats, Computer, Cuddling, Friends, Good Conversation, and Humor (my nickname as the joke-slayer is NOT entirely true...)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Friends problems and how to fix them, why my life seems stuck in the friend zone, and how happy I am that I decided to change career choice.

On a typical Friday night I am

Giving a massage, hanging out with friends, sparring, working out... no telling really, just depends on who calls me and how bored I am that week.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't discriminate against race, sex, lack thereof, just stupidity. Stupid people bother me in ways that I can't describe, that, and bad hygiene, if it's really bad.

You should message me if

You're interested in talking to an eccentric stranger about nothing and everything, I don't bite.. Or do I? Guess you'll have to find out, won't you! :D