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arealboi81

31 / M / Bisexual / Available

Tucson, Arizona

His Details

Last Online
Mar 4, 2012
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Libra and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a Chicago boy at heart. You can't take the home time out of me :O) I enjoy video games, hiking, lifting weights, laughing and playing with friends, working and hanging out withe my dog. I'm also fond of studying metaphysics and have started going to a Unity Church in town. I like Tucson, namely 4th ave. However, one day I would like to have my book published and travel around the country attending speaking arrangements. Right now it's a dream though one day I hope it will be a reality. Anything else you want ot know about me just ask. I am working on myself and would love to meet other people who are self motivated for healthy and positive change. I also strive to be transparent which I truly appreciate in others.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working to make whatever impact I can on the youth that I work with. I also have my own private spiritual coaching, reiki and hypnotherapy business. I'm an interfaith minister. I hope that one day my book will be published. I have been published in an anthology before which was great.
I’m really good at
First and foremost I am a thinker. I like to have kind, compassionate and intelligent conversations with others. Metaphysics and philosophy intrigue me and I like to share that knowledge with others. People have told me I'm good at taking these complex ideas and making them easier to understand. I'm pretty good at chess and strategy games. At work, I'm talented in many different things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Lately people have been commenting a lot on my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Stone Butch Blues, The Best Transgender Erotica, Zami, Loving in the war years, Female Masculinities, Venus envy, RubyFruit Jungle, The Gospels of Mary, The Gnostic Gospels, The Journey of the Soul Series, The House on Mango Street, The only astrology book you'll ever need, harry potter, A dog's purpose, A Trans love story.

Movies: Boys don't cry, All of the Star Trek movies, The Back to the Future Trilogy, Mary Poppins, But I'm a Cheerleader, If These Walls Could Talk 2, What dreams may come, Avatar, Marley and Me.

Music: Rap, Hip-Hop, R&B, folk, rock, new age

Foods: Mexican, middle eastern, hamburgers and fries.
The six things I could never do without
My community, my close friends, my android, spirituality, sexuality, internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How we got here and what purpose we have in life. The future and how my spirituality effects that. Love and the different ways of relating to different people. Different ways of making love with different people and combinations of people. Polyamory and all of it's possibilities. The human condition and how to improve it for each person. Gender identity and how it is constructed in society. Why cuddling and hugging feel so damned good...
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, hanging out at an event if there is one. Otherwise I'm either at a book store or playing games at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've already admitted so much...just read my profile.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to meet someone new and interesting. You like to play video games, frequent cafes and coffee houses, eat out, practice buddhism or any form of energy work. You're into someone who is transgender and you're open minded. You are looking for a friend, a good debate, sex, fun and laughter. I'm also down to explore a dating situation with the right person.