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arfbarkwoof

46 Oberlin, OH Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:49pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Esperanto (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I live in Oberlin, Ohio, but often travel. My location (above) is where I am now, more or less.

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The quickest way to find out about me (well, sexy me) is to visit my FetLife profile -- it's under the same name.

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I moved to Oberlin in 2009 after 17 years in San Francisco, and have had a hard time building the same sort of "intimate circle" I had back there.

I'm bi and poly, prefer BBWs and FTM, like to travel, and tend to change careers every few years.

I removed most of my photos from this site because I resent OKC putting their watermark on my material. I can point you at lots more after we start chatting.

I am restless, sensual, and coated in chocolate
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moving from interesting thing to interesting thing. Finding new challenges. Rolling over in bed and falling asleep again. Mmm, sleep.

Professionally I'm a videojournalist and writer. (No, really.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing instruments -- my degree's in composition, and my strongest instrument is the trombone. Mental arithmetic. Getting to the point. Teaching. Singing. Writing. Finding my way around an unfamiliar city.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Damned if I know! I see me from the inside. Would someone who knows me please call and tell me what to put here?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work. It's the occupational hazard of the freelancer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cruising. Hey, it's the truth.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put bacon bits and breadcrumbs on ice cream, and nutritional yeast on everything else.

Actually, I'm *willing* to admit to more "private" things here, but refrain for people who don't want to read them. Consideration, people!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you feel like it! The first hit's free.

I generally won't contact you unless you specifically say you're open to men in their 40s (close enough). That's especially true if you're under 30. I might be very, very interested in you, though, so please do contact me if you think we're a match!