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argar

35 / M / straight / Single

El Paso, Texas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian, Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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I am a loner, aware, and introspective.

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My Self-Summary

I truly believe there is more to this world and this life than what we can see. I believe in science, but I don't think it is the answer to everything. Almost everything sure, but not everything. I believe in the human spirit and the power of will. Of course in everything we do we need a strategy. A strategy is the difference between succeeding or failing.

I like writing free verse poetry, unfortunately I only seem to get in the mood to write poetry when I am in love or in pain.

My favorite genre is fantasy. I love just about anything that has elves and dwarves, magic and missions, normal people doing extraordinary things because the situation demands it. Stuff like that.

What I’m doing with my life

I am an ESL/English teacher. I have a dream of one day writing and getting at least one book published in the fantasy genre.

I’m really good at

I have excellent observations skills as well as have learned to listen. Happened when I injured my tongue. Couldn't speak for a while. I'm also a pretty good conversationalist. I am pretty good untying knots given enough time. I'm a good friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am an odd ball. Not at all conventional. Take that as a good thing or bad, I have got to be me. I'm also a Mexican w/maybe a fourth on the Chinese side, but the only Chinese I know is the food.

Some people have a hard time knowing where I'm coming from.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A. The Princess of Mars, Paths of Darkness, The Hawk and Fisher Series, Blue Moon Rising, Return of the Blue Moon, Legend, Waylander, Hero in the Shadow

B. Desperado, Definitely Maybe, Unbreakable, V for Vendetta, Untamed Heart, Highlander, Pump Up the Volume, Once Upon a Time in Mexico, Princess Mononoke, Space Adventure Cobra

C. Just about anything but Rap or Country

D. I love Chinese food, Mexican food is not that far behind, I kind of enjoy sushi when the feeling is right, I recently tried Indian food and it was pretty tasty

D. Usually anything of the Asian persuation

The six things I could never do without

Boots
Books
A clear destination in mind
My family
Respect
Time

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Ways to improve myself and ways to help others. Thinking about all the books I lack the disciple to finally start writing.

On a typical Friday night I am

Spending time watching something with my family or friends. Trying to unwind from a long week doing something completely mindless and distracting.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm attracted to weirdos, people that go there own way, unique folks. I am not very physical, unless it's rough housing. The intimacy thing is kind of a mystery to me. I'm into animated anything. From anime to current American animation I love to watch it.

You should message me if

You're a weirdo like me. You think you might be able to teach me something or learn something from me. If you want to compare philosophy's and expand our world view. If you need someone to listen.

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