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aricknophobia

31 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:32pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay), Turkish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Living between NY and Berlin sounds dreamy. But it really depends on the flight.

My room has an Anita Bryant record framed on the wall.

My favorite aunt and uncle grow their own pot for their kids so they don't have to buy the stuff made with pesticides. It's nice.

German beer has nothing on IPA.

I can probably save you if you're injured and/or dying in the wilderness.

I looooooove mistakes. I'm also into the art of listening and the sexiest thing in the world is openness when it's difficult.

I like to run. Metaphorically too.

I am listening to seryn now. If you knew who they are before reading this, we can do it on the first date without question.
What I’m doing with my life
Finishing an important documentary while finding all kinds of distractions and reasons to stall. Loving and hating and running towards fears. I'm a freelance director/producer.
I’m really good at
listening really well, creating awkward moments, empathy, and a few other things that don't make you a living, such as "dancing like no one is watching" when no one is watching, and sneaking wine bottles into movie theaters or getting free things legitimately that no one needs...

also, I'm really good at fun first dates... though beyond that, no guarantees...
The first things people usually notice about me
almost purposefully awkward. like in a good scene.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I live my life by the rules of Kramer.

An spontaneous unrecipied meal with great wine and Louis Armstrong + some biography mixed with Steve Reich, followed by some Charlie Kaufman or Shane Carruth and a long MB sesh.

Alternately, lead with Bertolucci or Haneke or even Pasolini. Then comes the MB sesh, accompanied by alanis. Catch up on some unabashed gay memoir. Built up an appetite and feel lazy after all that so go out for something spicy or exotic with a real margarita. Dancing with minimal acoustic electro. And don't forget the night cap- Seinfeld or Kevin Spacey.
The six things I could never do without
mountains without roads in sight
awkwardness
the quest for balance between self deprecation and vulnerability
leadings up to
[insert some fancy vintage wine here]
a quest
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what's wrong with me
that funny looking lady on the subway
my goals and how to achieve them
my 5th grade crush
how much I love snow
why won't he look at me???
one more drink couldn't hurt
what am I doing with my life?
how would I say that in German?
film
and my screwy childhood
On a typical Friday night I am
drinking something tasty for social or artistic lubrication. more if I'm expected to dance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After drunkenly hooking up with someone in a park that was closed for the night, I climbed the tall fence to get out, using a neighboring tree for support.

As I stood atop the metal precipice, my partner in crime shouted up a warm warning at me: be careful man, that's really high!

I leapt down to my demise: an ankle injury putting me on crutches for weeks, not to mention needing his help to limp home. The thing I shouted back at him, just before jumping?

"Don't worry! I'M A MOUNTAINEER!"
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...you laughed even a little
...it was a courtesy laugh
...you would be kind enough to courtesy laugh while alone in your room reading a self-loathing personal ad on okcupid
...you don't give courtesy laughs
...your friends are doing it