Some random thoughts (because I don't like being told what to say
and having my comments framed) ....
I have to emphasize the sex aspects because they're so crucial
later on in dating / relationships.
I'm g0y not gay, which means I never do anal or rimming.
Kind of maddening that so many homosexual males are so obsessively
fixated on the anus.
I know there are some out there who aren't.
I honestly think it's the prevailing cultural norm and the fixation
of internet porn on anal.
Believe it or not, the majority of gay males prior to about 1975
did not do anal, and actually looked down on those who did.
I dislike watching organized team sports. Even the Olympics. The
only thing I like is male gymnastics and male swimming, and I'm not
watching because I care which country wins :)
Jeez, there's a lot of smart guys on here. Masters degree and Ph.D.
students, good looking ones. So this is where they hang out.
Something I wrote months back when I was in university ....
"I'm just working on a paper for one of my psychology classes.
Sometimes this stuff just floors me.
Summary: "Our personalities are apparent in the words we use. For
example, a careful analysis of the writings of almost 700 bloggers
found that words such as "awful", "worse", "horrible" &
"annoying" were used more often by people who were high in
neuroticism than by those who were less prone to fretfulness and
worry. "Drinks" and "dancing" characterized extraverts, and
"visiting", "together", "hug", and other such friendly terms were
related to agreeableness.
The Big Five personality factors are OCEAN: openness,
conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness and
The lesson: to those who know, your writing (and your speech,
posture, how much space you occupy, clothes, how you decorate your
room, and on and on) are extremely revealing. A trained
psychologist can read you like a book.
So be careful how you express yourselves online boys!