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45 M Mississauga, Ontario, CA

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  • Ages 18–32
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Yesterday – 8:16pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English, Ukrainian (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a trained lawyer, recently completed a second undergrad degree in psychology, graduated in June 2013.
Not really keen to return to work, currently looking after an elderly handicapped parent.
I actually found law pretty soul-destroying (don't go to law school).
I was a car accident personal injury lawyer (plaintiff side).
I work out 3X per week in winter.
Posted recent photos, taken in April 2014.
UPDATE: Fitness consultation on August 26/14 measured 10.5% body fat. Pretty good, eh?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not really obsessed with money.
For example, I refuse to spend money on a cell phone, have never had one, refuse to get one.
So I guess I'm a careful spender.
Honestly, for now, I'm thrilled to live frugally and not have to work.

I had a heart operation almost 10 years ago, so not looking for a stressful job.
I'm focused on developing a nice, muscular body.
I read, keep up on current events, work out, play video games.
Would like to travel (inexpensively).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Questioning authority.
Questioning the need for, and legitimacy of, authority.
I loathe the police, have successfully fought many traffic tickets.
Many cops are trained liars and brutal thugs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some random thoughts (because I don't like being told what to say and having my comments framed) ....
I have to emphasize the sex aspects because they're so crucial later on in dating / relationships.
I'm g0y not gay, which means I never do anal or rimming.
Kind of maddening that so many homosexual males are so obsessively fixated on the anus.
I know there are some out there who aren't.
I honestly think it's the prevailing cultural norm and the fixation of internet porn on anal.
Believe it or not, the majority of gay males prior to about 1975 did not do anal, and actually looked down on those who did.
I dislike watching organized team sports. Even the Olympics. The only thing I like is male gymnastics and male swimming, and I'm not watching because I care which country wins :)
Jeez, there's a lot of smart guys on here. Masters degree and Ph.D. students, good looking ones. So this is where they hang out.
Something I wrote months back when I was in university ....

"I'm just working on a paper for one of my psychology classes. Sometimes this stuff just floors me.

Summary: "Our personalities are apparent in the words we use. For example, a careful analysis of the writings of almost 700 bloggers found that words such as "awful", "worse", "horrible" & "annoying" were used more often by people who were high in neuroticism than by those who were less prone to fretfulness and worry. "Drinks" and "dancing" characterized extraverts, and "visiting", "together", "hug", and other such friendly terms were related to agreeableness.

The Big Five personality factors are OCEAN: openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness and neuroticism.
The lesson: to those who know, your writing (and your speech, posture, how much space you occupy, clothes, how you decorate your room, and on and on) are extremely revealing. A trained psychologist can read you like a book.
So be careful how you express yourselves online boys!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Matrix, V for Vendetta, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, The Bourne Legacy

TV: Star Trek; I'm a huge Trekkie and would love to have someone to debate on why Picard should have been court-martialled many times (Star Trek: TNG for you youngins).
Also BBC World News, Hell's Kitchen, Bar Rescue, Sherlock (British)

Books: 1984, Dune, The Shipping News

Music: Alternative
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Just writing what I want to write here, not following their headings ....
Places I have travelled: France, Spain, Gibraltar, Ceuta, Germany, Poland, Ecuador, Dominica, Turks & Caicos, Cayman Islands, USA.
Want to travel everywhere, I love travelling (somewhat frugally).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The global debt ponzi scheme. Governments, corporations and individuals are massively in debt. Government debt is so huge that it can never be repaid. The alternatives are default or hyperinflation.

For example, if interest rates in Japan (3rd largest economy in the world) climbed to about 3% (they're about 0.7% now), Japan would not have enough money to pay the INTEREST on its debt.

I studied economics for 2 years before I went to law school.

Many writers I follow (Karl Denninger, Peter Schiff, Marc Faber) are convinced there must be a collapse sooner rather than later. Part of the reason I'm not keen to work (or have children). Because I think that working for a pension is pointless. There will be no pensions when there is a cascading global banking collapse and paper assets become worthless.

Yes, I know, very cheery. Not boyfriend material? You know what, boys, I follow the news very closely. It's a dangerous and ugly world. I'm just being realistic.

Reading this over, I'm aware of the irony that some of the above contradicts the psychology advice I've given. Not a good sign to fixate on ugly things, you should be positive and happy, blah, blah, blah.

Except that the level of ugliness in the world (environmental, financial, repressive / lying / murderous governments) is so OVERWHELMING, that it (sometimes) has to be expressed.

UPDATE on Aug 26/14: Reading "The Singularity is Near" by Ray Kurzweil now. He thinks that technology will save us all, that we are at the cusp of a massive explosion in technological prowess where robots (who will be as smart as humans by 2029, vastly smarter shortly thereafter) will solve many of the problems of the future. We shall see.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can’t say enough about the great photographers I found in Toronto. Young male & female (both will take pictures together), 1 hour, $60. They have a home studio. Invest the $60. Email me for their email address. Bayview & Sheppard.
You should message me if
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Really dislike body and facial hair.
Again, I'm g0y not gay, meaning I won't do anal sex or rimming ever.
The anus is not a sexual organ.
You can get tons of pleasure from oral, kissing, cuddling, massage, body contact, frot, grinding penis between partner's thighs while facing him, erotic wrestling, spanking, being spanked.
Or any combination of the above.
Not to leave the wrong impression. I'm happy to take things slowly, meet for coffee, discuss things, get comfortable. Though I am kind of serious / intense, but am working on that :)
Finally, a lot of people have 'liked' me, but I'm not a paying member, so I don't know who you are. Send me a message :)