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arjpillai

26 M Nāsik, India

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:46am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Unemployed
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Might want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Tamil (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
As much as I love reading what people have to say in their profiles, I find myself at the crossroads when it's time to fill my own.

Why this happens, I'm not quite sure. I guess attempting to describe myself, my thoughts, ideas, and idiosyncrasies is an exercise I've never undertaken seriously.

Is this due to lack of the one trait that distinguished Narcissus from ordinary folk or is it my failure to look inwards and put into words what I see?

Till I figure out an answer to that question, here's the standard profile description I've used since time immemorial.

"well i am an easy going guy, an introvert really.
I like straightforward and humble people, am like that as well.
Believe in keeping things simple, there are already way too many complexities in life... wat say?

Like to read, listening to music, watch sports on telly, have a game of cricket with friends, love computer and console gaming and am an occasional poet.

That pretty much sums me up... eh wait... no, yep thats it !!!"

"I am big, introverted, and laidback."

The above three were the ones I chose when this site, in its older avatar, asked me to choose 3 words to describe myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being unfair to it at the moment!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...listening, reading people and their discomforts, getting lost in thoughts, analyzing things around me, wondering how many layers people have to them, trying to understand other viewpoints, having intense conversations, being diplomatic and blunt as per the situation, exchanging ideas, writing... and solitude !
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My bulk, my toothy smile (if I flash it), and my quiet demeanor!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I started off as a reader with a lot of promise but have only around 10 or so books to show for it. That's the problem when you don't love madly any one particular thing.

I'm listing the books I've read here just to goad me into reading more.

1) Oliver Twist (Such a beautiful story)
2) Black Beauty (Brought a tear to the eye multiple times)
3) Sherlock Holmes series (Can't have enough of the character)
4) The Alchemist (picked up purely because of the hype and no, it didn't live up to it)
5) The Princess (all I remember is that it was a personal account of a Saudi girl during her growing up years)
6) Angels & Demons, The Da Vinci Code (masala entertainers)
7) World's Biggest Brand Failures (Management student or not, this is an excellent read)
8) Secession-ism In India (mega-yawn affair)
9) Orange is the New Black (picked this up after watching the 1st season of the TV series and it was quite enjoyable)
10) The Godfather (finally read this one and boy oh boy!!)

I know that's only 8 but I bet I've read more. Will add them here as and when I remember. Have been guilty of starting too many books before leaving them midway. Oh I so wish I had read enough to be unable to mention them in this space!

As for movies, I'm pretty much up for anything and have a better record with them compared to books. There are way too many favorites to list but for the sheer thrill factor it carried when I watched it first, I have to say it's "Terminator 2: The Judgement Day".

Haven't been so enamored by TV shows since the days of some fantastic ones on 90s Indian telly. English TV networks have some fine aces up their sleeves, which has meant that TV shows take precedence over movies now (the shorter length helps greatly). So much so, that I'm noting down all TV series with rave reviews that I come across and plan to watch (the count breached the 30 mark some time ago).

Anyway, here are some favorites.
Breaking Bad, Homeland (S01 only), Spartacus, Rome, F.R.I.E.N.D.S., Seinfeld, Everybody Loves Raymond, Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, The X-Files, House M.D., Sherlock, Whose Line Is It Anyways and most HBO productions.

Coming to music, like some from a wide variety genres except hard/heavy/death metal rock. Blame it on my lack of understanding or enthusiasm for the same, but I do want to know more about that genre in the hope that may be I'll see/hear/experience what I was oblivious to before.

Being brought up in a multilingual home has meant music tastes span across three languages and even more decades!

Although I'm a foodie, I haven't experimented much when it comes to the different cuisines out there! So yeah, I'm a rank novice when it comes to that!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My father would always say that nothing is indispensable. That really kinda stuck in my mind and I can't help thinking about it when a question like this pops up.

I do love to have around my computer, phone, scooter, the web and the likes, but can I live without them? It'd be tough but I'll probably get through.

"Life always finds a way" - Don't know to whom it originally belongs but I first heard Jeff Goldblum say that in his inimitable style in Jurassic Park.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of things!

I am the wandering kind....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing my typical daily stuff.
As mundane as it sounds, its true!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be extremely private at times, which sends out the wrong signals to people around me (barring my family of course)!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can help me make my profile better (or concise) :D!

Seriously though, you should message me if you think I'm good conversation material, you share some of my interests, and if I intrigue you in any way whatsoever!

Cheerio!