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arlocat

59 Saint Louis, MO Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 53–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Energetic, optimistic and flexible. Love outdoors activities, especially hiking and biking (not motorcycles). I'm working on getting around (the world) more often, and always planning the next trip.

I entertain informally and cook with and for friend and I admit that I could use some help with more gourmet cuisine.

I run regularly and love bike riding to explore new places. I don't watch much TV. Music is important and I am surrounded with it all the time. Politically, I lean left on social issues but am working on not being dogmatic. I'm excited by discussing and debating political events. NPR and NYT are staples for me.

I enjoy theatre, music, including folk venues, Symphony and clubs around town. For eating, good restaurants or good diners, for traveling---anywhere! I actually like to (try to) fix things and have become handier in recent years.

I've learned that I can't predict when there will be a 'spark' from reading these profiles. Surprises come in many different faces. So, if you sense a connection, I'd love to be surprised. Feel free to get in touch.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love the work I do. In a second career as a counselor, having ben a public interest lawyer and then massage therapist (not counting this one). I run a shelter for homeless women now and hope I'm making a difference, if only a little one, in some people's lives. I take my work seriously but I'm not a workaholic. Balancing work with fun stuff is important and take my 'leisure' seriously. Trying to become fluent in Spanish. I like all kinds of music, art, and theatre and love trying new venues. Reading and gardening are hobbies. I love to sing, but this is not in the "what I'm really good at" paragraph....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Soup and maybe spaghetti making. Walking my dog. Getting to the church on time (not really).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't ask.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Always changing: my favorite music, as of recently, is South American folk, Mercedes Sosa, etc. Adriana Varela, classical music, rock I grew up on. Cooking, roasting, grilling, soups and sharing everything with friends; traveling, especially to Spanish-speaking countries; Studying Spanish; keeping up with politics and educating myself enough to have a thoughtful position; reading fiction, non-fiction; seeing lots of live theatre; hearing music; conscious of my carbon footprint
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids (naturally), music, books,my friends, a pen and paper, my garden.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
which remote works which device....help!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sharing a cup of tea or glass of wine with a friend. Open to new experiences, always.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not really sure the devil is in the details.
You should message me if
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If you're somewhat tickled by my profile and have some curiosity to know more.

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