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30 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


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  • Ages 20-40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 1:13pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey, I'm Alex. Nice to meet you! Let's have have another try at this 'online dating' thing, this time with at least 99% less bullshit...

So. I'm a grad student working on my PhD in engineering. Being a huge nerd comes with the territory. That means I'm into a (stereo?)typical mix of science, technology, video games, and computer-related things. I really like it when I successfully repair Things, even though buying a new Thing would have been quicker and/or cheaper.

I have an artsy side too: playing the piano and the viola, composing, and sometimes even making an Art of the picture kind. I crocheted a giant tube sock once and used it to keep my front door area warm during winter.

I dance. Swing is my thing: Lindy Hop, Charleston, and some Blues and Balboa (aka the 'Bouncy Hug'). I'll be branching out to some other things soon for variety. I'm secretly jealous of my Portuguese friend's salsa abilities, and I'm afraid I'll never be able to get my hips quite as mobile as his.

Other body things: Pilates for posture and flexibility. I currently suck at yoga though. Life is a constant struggle between how much I love having visible abs, and how much I love having pizza (the pizza's got the upper hand for now, don't get your hopes up).

I like exploring the city with people. Walking around together is a great catalyst for conversation.

People tell me I can be funny and quick-witted. I'm a punslinger. I used to make them deliberately and ironically to mess with my friends, but now they come seemingly automatically at inopportune moments. Pls help. I like dark humour, when present company is comfortable with it. I'm of the opinion that serious issues can often be picked apart and analyzed through the lens of ridicule.

I'm not afraid of saying what's on my mind if I'm feeling shitty about something or it's bothering me. Maybe it's my Russian upbringing, but I find being (respectfully) direct and honest to be the way to go. "How are you doing?" is one of my least favourite questions, because I'm always tempted to give an essay instead of a canned response.

So my goal here is to find someone to have an awesome connection with - the kind of effortless magic where you felt like you did almost no work at all and everything went your way. We all live for those moments, right? I don't expect to find Ms. Right on here (it would be nice though), but a compatible kindred spirit to spend time together with would be great.
What I’m doing with my life
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My current mission is writing a giant piece of software by myself and then someday to write a gianter manuscript telling the school about it and why I should get to be called 'Doctor'. In the meantime, I write less-gianter papers about my work so the school can pay to fly me to places to give powerpoint presentations on those papers. Grad life.

I'm a creative type - INTP if you're into the whole Myers-Briggs thing. I've decided that after I graduate and leave the intensity of a decade plus of university, I want to try my hand at the 'starving artist' schtick and find some people to develop indie video games with. Who knows, it might turn into a non-starving artist gig if it goes well :) Gainful employment is always a fallback option, and there's no shortage of work in my field.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying in school, apparently. I'm also pretty okay at playing the piano and doing other things musical or rhythmic. There's also design, programming, figuring out technology, and the other occupational hazards that come with my line of study.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height. Eyes. Hint of a Russian accent, especially when I start talking fast. Some say I look intense and/or serious, but that's just my default resting face. Honest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've read a lot of sci-fi to pass the time when I commuted to school for 8 years. If you're into anything written by Robert J. Sawyer or John Scalzi, I'm sure we'd have lots to mutually geek out over.

TV and Movies: Yes.

Food: I don't like seafood. While I eat meat, I'm not in love with it or anything. If I had the means, I could happily eat at Vegetarian Haven on Baldwin every day. I'd really miss bacon, though.

Board games: I've been going out with friends to these new places popping up over Toronto that let you play board games while consuming caffeinated/alcoholic beverages. It's a great time, and people keep showing me cool new games.

Computer/console games: I've taken a liking to more indie-type games lately and avoided the blockbuster AAA releases. First-person shooters are my favourite. I still play Doom (from 1993) as the community keeps putting out neverending awesome content to this day. I like to play fun games with people too. Not ashamed to admit enjoying playing with a Wii.

Music: I don't actively go out of my way to listen to music, which is weird because of my musical background. Having said that, I dig almost everything by Daft Punk and Infected Mushroom. (late) Beethoven and Chopin are my classical bros.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Way too much. I'm a chronic overthinker and often a perfectionist, but I'm working on fixing that.

I also idly make up stories/timelines for the squirrels and pigeons I pass on my walks to and from school. Do you think the regular black pigeons ostracize the cream/white-coloured ones?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love the McDonalds Dollar Menu
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