I'm a country mouse transplanted into the city and thriving. Statistically speaking, I'm almost certainly more progressive than you are. I'm might be kinkier than you, but if you ask me to rate my kinks on a scale of 1-10, I will laugh and laugh. I'm feminist, anti-racist, anti-capitalist, queer, nonmonogamist, humanist. I see people as both the problem and the solution.
I am naked, fresh, and wiggly
I'm also really, really good at seeing the good in almost any experience, finding pleasure in things like I really mean it -- because I do. I'm a good host and I love making people welcome in my home. I throw a damn fine party.
Books: speculative fiction, imaginative sci-fi and fantasy, and non-fiction, especially good personal essays and natural history.
Movies: action/adventure, smart/clever comedies, engaging dramas. Please god no stupid shitty romcoms.
Music: yes, please! There's probably at least a song or two in every genre that I like to listen to. I almost always like peppy music, music in a minor key and textural music. These days, when left to my own devices, I listen mostly to electronica of all sorts.
Good food can be found anywhere, and I love to share it with someone who can enjoy it as much as I do, whether it's a pile of rice and beans in a hole in the wall in Xela, Guatemala or a high-end meal at the French Laundry. Easy favorites: sushi, anything Asian, stews, creative, BBQ, spicy. Oh, and cheese. I have an unholy love of cheese.
* You're brilliant and askew.
* You're wearing a big smile in at least one of your profile photos.
* You like amusement parks, adventures, dancing, and/or kinky sex.
* You'll get me to do more of any or all of the above.
* You get hot for smart, gorgeous curvy chicks.
You should NOT bother if:
* you aren't local to Boston or visit there regularly, or local to The Bay Area (in other words, although you may be lovely and a great match, I don't have any interest in solely long-distance connections)
* you are much younger than I am
* your primary interest is in whether I'll peg you
* you are cheating on a partner
* your favorites section features a low proportion of women artists in any category