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36 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:23am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I am a brooklyn fellow who likes to make and cook and grow things. I am sensible (sometimes to a fault) and smart, and I reliably can make people laugh. I take care of myself and those around me. I like to do stuff outside and probably wouldn't be in NYC if I could convince all of my friends to move elsewhere (west coast?). I travel well (and as often as possible). I am reliable, give solid advice, and recognize my faults. I am in LA regularly these days so looking for sweet misters on both coasts.

I am funny, intuitive, and kind
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a set design company and spend stretches of time working a ton. I love what I do, but am grateful for the slow stretches when I can spend time doing the other things I love like taking advantage of this awesome city, going on last minute vacations, hanging with my friends (and now, their amazing kids too!), cooking, volunteering on a crisis line for gay kids, and generally making merry.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting stuff done, being on time, calling it like I see it, making people laugh, finding common ground, not running out of stuff, making bowls out of clay, being a good boss, toasting marshmallows
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This one stumps me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Wind-Up Bird Chronicle; A Visit from The Goon Squad; The Hours

Movies: Just saw Amour and was blown away; Breakfast Club; Ice Storm; Hannah and Her Sisters; Bonnie and Clyde; Fargo
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fellowship, watermelon, water to swim in, jam, kids, onions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The apartment I am hoping to move to in Prospect Height imminently, how to make a difference, why I don't ski and surf all the time, how to be the most fun uncle and godfather.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being goofy with friends in Brooklyn.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A witch in Peru told me that I would spend my life with someone whose name begins with a "K." While it's been almost ten years, I am still on the lookout for K-people!
You should message me if
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...you are a thoughtful mister who likes to have laughs. I only like people who are extremely nice and also ambitious. I think humility and ambition is a sexy combination.
I tend to like fellows who like to be outside, are driven, creative and super smart.