49 Santa Rosa, CA
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My self-summary
My life is filled with Music and Art. I am passionate,
creative and cuddly, fun, smart, and worldly. Have lived in the UK
for half of my life, hence i am left with a very british sense of
humour. I have dual citizenship...great for travel!

To be compatible with me, you should be "REALLY INTO MUSIC" ... If you manage to get to one or two concerts a year, and you "like" music, like most people. Thats great...but... If you go to gigs on a more regular basis, or even better, (but not a requirement) - you play guitar or any instrument, you may fit into my world perfectly. Also, if you're fairly edgy and well travelled...even better. Oh and probably most important..super brainy, is a must...!!! I realize this may be asking for too much...but I think you're out there...I just have to find you! If this even remotely sounds like you...PLEASE don't be shy...let me know...asap!!! Life is so short. You won't be sorry! I'm fun, smart, affectionate and a one man woman.

If you want an email / text buddy...I'm not your girl! I want to talk, then if that goes well...I'd like to meet you. I'm on here to get off of here! Connection is more important for me than location.

As I am always honest....Only for search engine purposes I have myself listed as under 50...chronologically I'm really 54...tho I feel like I've never left my twenties. I connect best with 40 & 50's. I'm ENFP...(Keirsey test score).
What I’m doing with my life
I photograph the music scene at night. And work in the radio biz daily. The love of photography has taken over my oil painting time....(alot less to clean up! :)) Seriously love to paint but lately if i dont have my camera in hand i feel a bit naked...! ;)
I’m really good at
Friendship. Smiling. Having fun. Appreciating art & music. Listening. Having fun. Laughing...lots. Having fun. Photographing music. Did I say having fun? :)...I Try to appreciate every minute that we get here on the planet. Painting, kissing, touching, laughing, creating, enjoying life, loving, smiling, and being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is this a silly question or its it just me? i mean, how would i know what OTHER people notice first about ME?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav a big one...too many to mention but just to name a few...Pearl Jam, Robbie Williams, Matthieu Chedid ('M), Elton John, The Who, Led Zep, Beatles, Kings of Leon, Amy Winehouse, Joy Division, Silversun Pickups, Iggy, Jack Johnson, Lenny Kravitz, Matt Nathanson, The Hives, Beatles, Green Day, Arctic Monkeys, Adele, Florence and the Machine, Ramones, Tom Petty, Insomniacs, X, RHCP, Cat Sevens, Pistols, Psychobilly/Rockabilly, Alt, Punk...always punk! etc etc etc. Lately in a Pearl Jam mode.
Movies...The Notebook, Withnail and I, Billy Elliot, Life is Beautiful, Quadrophenia, City of Angels....
Food...Indian, Thai, chinese, Italian, almost everything! Ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Love, Music, Sex, Friends, Art, Kissing, Touching, Cuddles, Peace, Contentment, Sunshine & the Beach. (I know I know...thats more than six...I was never very good at Math!!!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The positive! And how I can make MY life a better one.
And, guys, work, guys, friends, guys, my kids, guys, gigs, guys, my camera, running.
On a typical Friday night I am
Never a typical Friday night...just doesnt happen!!!
Sometimes at a pub or club with friends and live music. But anything can and usually does happen so theres no such thing as a typical friday night! :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Shhhh...Its private.
....OK who is writing these questions??
You should message me if
If you would describe yourself as a guy who is confident, brainy, fun and funny, educated, creative, worldly, has a deep love for music and the arts, sexy, intelligent, comfortable in his own skin, sociable, passionate, worldly, educated, unafraid of meeting new people, creative, passionate, is tactile and likes touch, loyal and honest to a fault....if you have some or all of these qualities i would love to hear from you.

And if You are young at heart.
You have clear photos of yourself.
MUST love music!
You love Art or are an artist/designer/photographer.
You are not a game player.
You are not an addict or alcoholic.
You are NOT married.
You are honest.
You can spell.
You have a BIG HUGE.............personality. ;)
If you are a Brit or European this is a plus, (tho not a requirment.)
You are single. yes...that means, unmarried!
You have a keen sense of humour (no matter how its spelled!) :)
So...if the above, describes you...I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!