I'm seeking and creating change in my life right now. I'm in Maryland at the moment and expect to be in Vermont, Maine, New York and Washington before the end of winter 2016.
I'm actively interested in new romance in my life. Someone who can travel, is interested in big changes in their life, is fit, and is very into me.
I love intimacy. I love seeing others as they truly are, with their guard down. I like revealing myself and feeling accepted for my naked, true self. To be seen and to see, deeply, through the heart, is what I want from romance, love, relationships and sex.
I'm polyamorous. I've had the same male partner for the past five years. He's high introverted, whereas I like a lot of attention, cuddling, talking, and sex. It's not in his nature to keep up with me. I need more people to turn to.
Yes, I have friends. But the conversations one days during daylight hours over a cup of tea are quite different than the ones one has at midnight after two rounds of sex. I've an okay amount of the former and am craving much more of the latter.
I have zero interest in a casual-sex relationship. I crave connection. Feeling understood is an aphrodisiac for me.
I'm self-centered in that I'm centered and interested in my self. I am giving, in that I love to give of myself and my talents, which I do best when I center my focus around my own well-being first. I wish more people were selfish, in the sense of actually seeking the truth of themselves.
I love authenticity and honesty, even when the honest truth is that you have an emotional problem with short people and you're madly in love with your sister. Whatever your truth is, I've lived and loved with someone crazier. The hidden parts of people are the most fascinating parts.
I enjoy reinventing myself and exploring unconscious realms. I love tracing my emotions back to the first memory, the first time I felt that way.
Psychology, hypnosis, shadow work and consciousness awareness techniques fascinate me.
I'm a board game designer. It's what I do for fun. I do all the artwork myself. I grew up playing video games and board games, so designing them comes naturally.
This profile is like an analogy of me, where "me" is my ego. My ego is an analogy of my real me. My "real me" is an analogy of the universe. These statements are an analogy for the nature of the universe – expounding on each reality through another analogy.
Polyamory is loving multiple people at once, completely transparently. It is about being your full self with more than one person.
I am a relationship anarchist at heart and in theory, but I believe some polyamory hierarchy is somewhat inevitable. Whomever you have more time and investment with will undoubtedly be dearer to you, right?
This beautiful short comic shows the different relationship types very clearly, easily and quickly (please do check it out!): http://i.imgur.com/xPacZwN.jpg
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I meet people every day who I don't have a lot in common with. When it comes to someone I'm seeking on OKCupid, it is important to me that we share a lot in common.
I'm interested in traveling to meet someone special, and potentially molding my life around such a person.