My Priorities (Aside from not hurting others/planet):

1. Being Healthy
2. Loving
3. Having Fun
4. Learning
5. Generating Wealth
6. Educating Others

Getting To Know Me & Improving Our Match Rating

One of the best ways to get to know me is to go to "The Two of
Us" tab and check out my question answers. I've answered over 2000 questions and all my answers are public. I've put explanations under A LOT of the questions I've answered. I think these make great discussion starters. Also, keep in mind we don't need to agree about everything to be friends (or more than friends).

You can even make our match rating more accurate, by selecting "questions she cares about" and answering a bunch of those questions.

You can also learn the "juicy stuff" by answering questions about sex that I have answered. I recommend doing a little of both so you don't get a one-sided view of me. (I'm both very sexual and very intellectual.)

Seeking...

I'm polyamorous and so is my husband. As of April 2013 I also have a boyfriend (who has a wife of his own).

I am interested in both men and women. I'd love to find a bi-sexual woman who is interested in both me and my husband and possibly my boyfriend too. That just makes the possibilities all the more interesting.

I want companionship just as much as I want sex. I'd be happy to meet a woman who is mostly interested in my husband and wanted to have a mostly or entirely platonic relationship with me. We're not unicorn hunters, but we love unicorns nonetheless.

As a bisexual woman I very much would love a woman around. Not just so that I can touch someone else's breasts aside from my own... Another friend, companion, someone to be with us when we travel, when we play, when we sleep. Two is intimate... Three is a party! (Let's make it an intimate party?)

If you're an attractive man (physically fit), and would like to become my friend, then there is a strong possibility we can become intimate friends or more.

Why we rule:

We're open minded and adaptable people. I'm into art, food, sex, gardening, women, photography, writing, novels, traveling, the ocean, yoga, fitness, dancing, and I love trying new things.

My husband loves the above things as well, although he's not an artist like I am. He's also into computers, building things, hiking and so on.

We're interested in making friends too, so no pressure on a first date.

My husband's [Married in June 2010] profile is here:
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"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." -Gandhi

INTERESTS

"Justice is often just rationalized revenge." ~ Me

I like art, books, drawing, writing, board
games, graphic design, photography, ice skating,
swimming, gardening, singing (though I suck at it),
dancing, concept art, real-time and turn-based strategy
video games, scrap-booking, modeling, nature, polyamory, movies with meaning (and good plots), intelligence, good quotes & poetry.

My quizzes (made in 2010)
Preferences & Perspectives Quiz
http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/preferences-amp-perspective

How Taboo & Kinky Are You? Test
http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/how-taboo-are-you-test

Graphic Designer & Illustrator

I am available for hire as a freelance illustrator and graphic designer.

I draw with a number two mechanical pencil (which I sharpen carefully to an ultra-fine point by scribbling very purposefully).

I scan in my drawings, and then I digitally paint them using Photoshop. I used to use Painter, but I lost the disc unfortunately.

I also use Fireworks for Web Design and creating vector-based logos.

I worked as a Web Designer for almost a year, which was a lot of fun. I still make websites from time to time.

Health Consultant

I do consultation via e-mail on health, nutrition, weight loss, and healing conditions such as diabetes, colon problems, hiatal hernias, candida, recurring yeast infections, etc. If you have any of these problems I can put you on the track to healing them.

I also can help people suffering from cancer, but their chance of survival is going to be better if they can go to a full-blown alternative institute when we're talking late-stage serious cancer.

Public Speaker

I avidly enjoy giving lectures about nutrition, lifestyle, food and health in general.

I'm a decent poet, and enjoy preforming at open-mics.

I'm good at expressing myself fully.

I'm good at enjoying mundane things and making a game out of cleaning or other boring tasks.

I'm good at inventing activities, organizing events, leading meditations, and teaching others.

I'm good at coaching others in helping them lose weight and increasing the level of health they experience.

My radiant personality. People often say that I have very bright eyes, or a glowing aura.

BOOKS
Steven Brust's books, especially his "Vladimir Taltos" series
Karen Miller's "Kingmaker, Kingbreaker"
Naomi Novik's The Temeraire Series
Erica Jong's "Isadora Wing" novels
Carol Berg's books, especially "Flesh & Spirit" and "Breath & Bone"
Jeal Auel's "Earth Children" series
K. A. Applegate's "Ever World" and "Remnants" novels
Joan Grant's 'Far Memory' books, and her biography
Ayn Rand's "The Fountainhead"

Books I Highly Recommend
"Ishmael" by Daniel Quinn
"The Continuum Concept" by Jean Liedloff
"Sugar Blues" by William Dufty
"Many Lifetimes" by Joan Grant
"The Art of Happiness" by Dr. Howard Cutler and the Dalai Lama

MOVIES
Note: I'm not a TV person or a movie person. I like to read and to go out and get active.

Anime Movies
Spirited Away
Howl's Moving Castle
Ghost in the Shell: Innocence
Full Metal Alchemist

MUSIC
I listen to music I can dance to, relate to, meditate to or have sex to. I like things ranging from Japanese music, to folk music, to gypsy punk, to modern pop, to oldies to lots of stuff.
Mostly I like good conversation.

Indian classical is the only music I can listen to for hours without becoming annoyed or depressed by the music.

FOOD
I make gourmet specialty health foods as part of my business, and trying to describe the things I make without you being able to see, taste, smell the food... Is just kinda pointless. Let's just say I eat unusual, delicious healthy food that is absolutely worth sighing, moaning and "mmmMMMMmmming" about.

Fresh Fruit

Introspection

Artistic Expression

Affection

Nature

A Sense of Accomplishment

How to accomplish my dreams.

. . . doing something different than last Friday night. I might be working, I might be playing. I might be out, I might be in. Maybe I'm with friends, maybe I'm going to bed early. Friday night is just another night of the week to me.

I could define Statutory Rape at ten years old.

You understand that I'm interested in intelligent discourse, you're physically fit and you're polyamorous.

Smokers (of cigarettes), please move along or quit. The smell of smoke on someone makes me feel severely physically ill, and if I'm around it for even a few seconds I begin to get a headache.