I'm polyamorous, and seeking partner(s) to enjoy life with!
Most importantly, however, I'm seeking community members to join my community (which will not be formed anywhere near Buffalo, NY). As of May 2014 I'm extremely close to being ready to form my own sustainable community. More on that later on in my profile.
I'm many different things, and I've been many places, but the most important things about me are thus:
I am always striving to become a better version of myself. I am always remolding my views, my life, my habits and everything around me to suit my newest grandest vision of myself and my life. I like to travel, especially with friends.
Finding the most loving and complete truth within myself is exciting to me. I love to discover myself best through interacting with other people. I especially love to interact with others via games. I love strategy games as well as party games. But not drinking games.
I am a board-game enthusiast and designer.
If you can figure out how to find and answer OKC questions I've authored, super kudos, btw. Please let me know how that is done. :)
Notes on Polyamory: Polyamory is not about having sex with multiple people at once, or about "cheating" while your partner knows about it. Polyamory is loving multiple people at once, completely transparently. There are no secrets, and there need not be any secrets when all actions are in love.
When you open your mind and your heart to love, you find that it is natural to love many people, just like mothers love all of their many children, just like a person can love many siblings, or many aunts and uncles.
I am a relationship anarchist at heart and in theory, but I believe some polyamory hierarchy is somewhat inevitable just due to how much time and investment is put into one relationship versus another. This beautiful short comic shows the different relationship types very clearly, easily and quickly (please do check it out!): http://i.imgur.com/xPacZwN.jpg
Note: The farther away you live, the better. I need excuses to travel the world!
When I first became active on OKCupid in 2009, I made a quiz. December 2013 I gave the quiz an overhaul. If you enjoy probing questions, self-discovery, or are simply very interested in me, try out my Preferences and Perspective Quiz here: http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/preferences-amp-perspective
Including a link to your test results in your message to me definitely gets you kudos.
However, before messaging me, please read the "you should message me if..." section. If you don't qualify, your message will be deleted.