Polyamory is not about having sex with multiple people at once, or about "cheating" while your partner knows about it. Polyamory is loving multiple people at once, completely transparently. There are no secrets, and there need not be any secrets when all actions are in love.
When you open your mind and your heart to love, you find that it is natural to love many people, just like mothers love all of their children, just like a person can love many siblings, or many aunts and uncles. Just as a mother can love all three or five or eight children, anyone can love many people.
Loving people can include sex, but it doesn't have to. You just might want it to if you're attracted to each other as well as loving each other.
My Priorities (Aside from not hurting others/planet):
1. Being Healthy (Body, Mind & Spirit)
3. Having Fun
4. Adapting, Experiencing
5. Generating Wealth While Educating Others
I like art, books, drawing, writing, board
games, graphic design, photography, ice skating,
swimming, gardening, singing (though I suck at it),
dancing, concept art, real-time and turn-based strategy
video games, scrap-booking, modeling, nature, polyamory, movies with meaning (and good plots), intelligence, good quotes & poetry.
Getting To Know Me & How You Can Improve Our Match Rating
One of the best ways to get to know me is to go to "The Two of
Us" tab and check out my question answers. I've answered over 2000 questions and all my answers are public. I've put explanations under A LOT of the questions I've answered. I think these make great discussion starters. Also, keep in mind we don't need to agree about everything to be friends (or more than friends).
You can even make our match rating more accurate, by selecting "questions she cares about" and answering a bunch of those questions.
You can also learn the "juicy stuff" by answering questions about sex that I have answered. I recommend doing a little of both so you don't get a one-sided view of me. (I'm both very sexual and very intellectual.)
I'm polyamorous and so is my husband.
I am interested in both men and women. I'd love to find a bi-sexual woman who is interested in both me and my husband.
I want companionship just as much as I want sex. I'd be happy to meet a woman who is mostly interested in my husband and wanted to have a mostly or entirely platonic relationship with me. We're not unicorn hunters, but we love unicorns nonetheless.
As a bisexual woman I very much would love a woman around. Not just so that I can touch someone else's breasts aside from my own... Another friend, companion, someone to be with us when we travel, when we play, when we sleep. Two is intimate... Three is a party! (Let's make it an intimate party?)
If you're an attractive man (physically fit), and would like to become my friend, then there is a strong possibility we can become intimate friends or more.
Why you might be interested:
We're open minded and adaptable people. I'm into art, food, sex, gardening, women, photography, writing, novels, traveling, the ocean, yoga, fitness, dancing, and I love trying new things.
My husband loves the above things as well, although he's not an artist like I am. He's also into computers, building things, hiking and so on.
We're interested in making friends too, so no pressure on a first date.
My husband's [Married in June 2010] profile is here:
"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." -Gandhi
My quizzes (made in 2010)
Preferences & Perspectives Quiz
How Taboo & Kinky Are You? Test
"Justice is often just rationalized revenge." ~ Me