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artesian_well

31 F Chesterfield, VA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 4, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'd like to learn the art of creating a self summary because this is proving to be a very difficult task, but here goes. The most important thing in my life is my daughter and being a mother will always be my focal point, so if this is not something you are comfortable with then keep going to the next profile. If however, this is not a deal breaker here are some other facts about me and my life.

I am finally at a point in my life where I am very comfortable being single and I am not looking for a relationship to fulfill me, but think good conversation, having a travel companion, and generally enjoying the company of another individual would be really nice.

I believe I can tell almost everything I need to know about someone by the books on their shelf, and appreciate deep and meaninful conversation. I am fairly big on social activism and have pretty strong opinions about social issues, and although I respect the views and opinions of others, I don't think I would be able to date someone overly religious, conservative or socially apathetic. I don't say this to be a bitch, but I find it pretty essential to be able to have someone who shares at least the basic belief system.

I love being spontaneous, taking small trips on the weekends, and thrift store shopping, but also find being at home with a glass of wine and a good movie or book enjoyable as well. I love being outdoors and go rock climbing regularly and love pointless road trips. I do not know how to cook or bake or sew, but I can cut the grass and change a tire, and think being called intelligent and insightful more of a compliment than hot or sexy.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a social worker and work as a mental health clinician at a local non-profit organization. Most importantly, I am a mother trying to raise a daughter to be a caring and decent human being.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:Portishead, Deftones, Tori Amos, BT, Rage Against the Machine, Immortal Technique, Smashing Pumpkins,

Books/ Authors/Entertainers: Sylvia Plath, Harper Lee (To Kill a Mockingbird is my all time favorite book), Bill Hicks, Frida Kahlo, and almost any non-fiction.

Movies/TV: American Beauty, American History X, Life is Beautiful, History Channel, PBS/NPR (I know, I'm a nerd, but it's interesting), The Middle, Modern Family, The Amazing Race (I would love to do this with somebody some day.)
The six things I could never do without
My daughter
Books
Naps
Caffeine
A nice bottle of wine
Good Company
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing Barbie's with my daughter, or spending quality time with good friends. Although I don't do the whole, get so wasted I can't remember my name thing anymore, I do think throwing caution to the wind and having stupid fun every once in awhile is important. It's all about balance!!!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're not a self absorbed prick.
You don't message me and call me "baby."
You don't watch FOX news for anything other than a good laugh.
You don't have pictures of you with your shirt off in your profile
You know the difference between "Your" and "You're"
You don't expect me to sleep with you on the first date.