simplistically: i like the color purple, twilight, autumn in vermont, snow, and gin in my tonic. superficially: i'm a taller than average brunette, with blue eyes and a good smile. hypothetically: i'm smart, silly, sweet, goofy and geeky, and surprisingly practical. rationally, i think, therefore i am.
i don't really fit in this box or any others. i'm an outgoing introvert. i am both intimidating and charming. i'm a good listener, but i have no time for small talk or argument for the sake of argument. i try to make people happy, but i don't care what they think of me. i'll go with the flow until i'm backed into a corner, then i come out fighting. i'm impulsive, but not spontaneous. reserved, yet open. i write well, but my spelling stinks. i try to be logical, but i have learned to trust my instincts. i'm a control freak and a slob. i see both sides. though, unequivocally i am a big picture person and have no patience for details. so, that's my summary.
according to okcupid's personality test, i'm a "INTJ -The Mastermind," a group of traits shared by 1 percent of the population. this might explain a lot. or nothing at all. having read up some more on what the INTJ is, it is spooky accurate, not just in who i am know but the person i hope to be. the analytic systems builder. and the parts about being the most independent of the 16 types and love and relationships being an achilles heel. that's me in a nutshell.
as for okcupid's astute assessment of my personality as represented by cute little personality badges: less adventurous: check. less kinky: this is probably true, i am totally ok with it. more pessimistic: my best friend from college said i can find the cloud to go with any silver lining. less desiring of sex: this depends solely on the context of the sex, but its not what i'm here for, so i'll concur. less spiritual: check. more methodical: sure, ok, whatever, i make lists then i forget where they are. cruder: definitely. more arrogant: absolutely. more introverted: look its a picture of eyes under a rock, they look like mine. more loving: very true.
I am practical, tough, and compassionate