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59 F Portland, OR

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Last Online
Aug 24
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Who I am is a woman who does her best to create a life that makes sense, given my view of reality; this has been my goal for as long as I've been conscious. Who I am is a woman who makes an effort to BE conscious, to the best of my ability, and to have a reasonable amount of voluntary control in how my being in the world creates ripples in the common reality. I am a woman who has somehow finally managed to become an grown-up, without (I hope) losing my sense of and connection to childhood joy
What I’m doing with my life
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our plucky heroine is handcrafting trinkets, toys, and treasures, while fixing up a tiny city cottage with hens in the backyard ~ up in the damp Northwest corner of the Left Coast.

I moved to the NW in the mid 80's to go back to school. I have a degree from Evergreen in enameling and aesthetics, which since I actually make enamel jewelry and regalia means that unlike many with liberal arts degrees, I am using what I learned. I have been somewhat active in the SCA for almost twenty years.
I’m really good at
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the creative materialisation of objects from idea to reality is what I am best at (at least in the techniques that I have skill with) primarily metalwork, enameling, stitchery and textile arts, design, and random other artisanry...
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a short, curvy, middle aged woman, almost always busy with making things of one sort or another.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not much of a movie/teevee person, but made an exception for Firefly/Serenity, and am quite fond of Miyazaki.

I read science fiction and how-to manuals with equal enjoyment. (started reading science fiction when I outgrew reading horse stories) I read incessantly and voraciously, and have since before they sent me to school. There are a number of books that permanently changed the inside of my head, these two are the first that come to mind...
A Pattern Language, and The Timeless Way of Building by Christopher Alexander; Don't Shoot The Dog by Karen Pryor
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
honest clear communication
tools and the ability to use them
people dear to me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
gratitude, design, handwork projects, friends near and far, home repair and re-configuration, traveling...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working in my home studio on one project or another
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have been recovering from cancer diagnosis and treatment in 2012, so my physical stamina is still coming back. There are no current signs of cancer, and odds are that I will live a long life and die of something entirely different
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 40–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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