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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 17
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Fun sized guy up for adventures of all sorts. Artist, musician, bookworm, history geek, radio lab junkie. Love museums, food, drinks, discussions about relativity and quantum mechanics, bicycling, trying new things. Impressed by creative minds and quick wit. More Spock than Kirk. More Woody Allen than Carrie Bradshaw. I can't dance, but that has never stopped me. Carl Sagan is my spirit animal. Live uptown-work in Midtown. Seeking friends/conversation/possibilities. Undetectable Poz +
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring possibilities, living in the present, contemplating the infinite.
I’m really good at
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I'm really good at putting my foot in my mouth, I have always been amazingly gifted at saying the wrong thing at the wrong time, and trying my best to laugh off even the worst of my faux pas.

I grew up in a family of musicians and have played guitar and been singing for most of my life. I enjoy listening to and playing many different varieties of music. Lately I've been learning old jazz songs on the ukulele, but I can't yet say that i've "mastered" it...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My beard is rather blonde and soft.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My mother always told me that I was born old, I've always had tastes for many things from the past.

I'm a big fan of jazz and blues from the 1920's and 1930's, and have taken up collecting vintage LP's. Some of my favorites include Django Reinhardt, Fats Waller, the Boswell Sisters, etc... My father was a bluegrass musician, and so I'm quite fond of folk music from the American past. I do enjoy a lot of contemporary musicians as well like Tom Waits, Joni Mitchell, Regina Spektor, Carla Bruni, and more than can fit on this page. Also I can never get enough of classic rock, especially the later Beatles albums.

I'm a huge movie buff. I love foreign films, especially French and Spanish cinema. I am a huge Woody Allen fan, I believe I've seen every one of his films, and have many favorites. I love old movies and have many favorite actors like Katherine Hepburn, Cary Grant, Greta Garbo, Mae West, Bette Davis, James Cagney, etc...

One of my favorite books is The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera. I love the short stories of F. Scott Fitzgerald as well as The Great Gatsby (of course, who doesn't?). David Sedaris is one of my contemporary literary heroes. I'll also always love Roald Dahl, regardless of how old I get. Lately I've been enjoying works by Carl Sagan, Stephen Hawking and Richard Dawkins.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Art, Words, Thoughts, the ability to create, the ability to learn.... beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relativity and the 4th dimension.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Walking around in the city, observing people from a safe distance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am HIV positive and healthy. I've learned to make my peace with it. Going through the experience has given me a great many things, which I feel have become my strengths. If this is a problem for you, then please feel free to pass me by.
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you're spontaneously methodical and frivolously substantive...