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64 Easthampton, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 21
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I am a full-time artist. It is my calling and I love it. I paint in oil and create found object sculptures. A good day means I've learned something new. Being an artist is also not something from which I ever plan to retire. It engages my heart, challenges my mind and connects me with the world.

I may be busy but I have room in my life for a significant other and I'm looking for a PARTNER, friend and lover with whom I can share the rest of my life. I bring an open heart and a clear head. I often read in these profiles that someone has "no baggage." How I wish it were true. What I can say is I have done my homework and know my own mind. And I have methods and means to clear the cobwebs and not pass junk on to another. I believe thoughtfulness is one of the most important qualities one can bring to any relationship. I offer it and seek it in return.

I'm also a liberal old hippie, very green and a closet philosopher, interested in the HOW of all sorts of things, relishing conversations of depth and ideas. Curiosity keeps the brain lubricated and laughter is one of the world's best medicines.
What I’m doing with my life
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Growing, learning, getting better as an artist and a human being.
It's not all that long ago that I relocated back East from Colorado where I had lived for 16 years and which I still love (and miss). These days I'm settling in to Massachusetts and actively building a new community of friends.
I’m really good at
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seeing the forest AND the trees.
getting something done.
The first things people usually notice about me
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tall & blond with a twinkle in my eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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MOVIES: To Kill a Mockingbird, Dr. Strangelove, American Beauty, Groundhog Day, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Dog Day Afternoon, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, The Piano, English Patient, Don Juan DeMarco
BOOKS: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, 100 Years of Solitude, The Spell of the Sensuous, Steps to an Ecology of Mind
MUSIC: The first album I bought was the Beatles. The person I've seen the most in concert: Bruce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
creative activity
open skies and a view to the horizon
intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my work, its challenges & opportunities, how to grow it to be better, richer, more powerful and impactful.
"the meaning of life" and similar mysteries
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably working, dining with friends, or watching a movie with my cat on my lap.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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depends on whom I am talking to
You should message me if
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you are interested and engaged in life
and have some space in yours
to share with a new someone else.