Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


31 Southend-on-Sea, UK Woman


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 27
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Short: I'm reasonably clean, love to cook and my flat has a view of the sea, so really I'm a catch!

I guess I'm on here looking to meet someone interesting to spend time with. I have varied interests from keeping up with world developments to playing the piano. I have a degree in history of art and I like to paint, and go to art galleries. I really enjoy cooking French and Italian - I always think it's nicer to eat a home cooked meal. I love staying in with friends and watching a good film. I like to learn new things - at the moment I'm studying accountancy and Chinese, although the latter is not going too well! I'm told I'm a good friend and that I have a good sense of humour.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working for an anti-racism charity, we use footballers as role models to talk to students. I don't really plan the minutiae of life, I just like to see what comes up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading an awful lot of books, and cooking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books/authors: Neil Gaiman, Karen Slaughter, Sherri Tepper, Robert Jordan, The Alchemist, and I also like some comics. I love to read classics and factual books (mainly art or science), as well as modern fiction.
Movies: Every Wes Anderson film, especially Tenenbaums, action films - the pinnacle of which is Die Hard (don't talk to me about 5), Marvel/comic based films, Star Trek (the re-boots), copycat.
Shows: Big bang theory, Brooklyn 99.
Music: There's not a lot I won't listen to short of drum and bass and reggae. Favourites are Nirvana, Biffy Clyro, Herb Albert, Florence and the Machine, Steely Dan, Ugly Duckling, Johnny Cash, The Black Keys, and Pat Metheny.
I am always in the mood for good sushi, Chinese and French food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet access (for those That's guy out of that thing - what's his name?' moments)
Good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm not vacant or anything, but I don't spend a lot of time thinking about any one thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Buddies, chinese and a film, hello weekend!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I currently (and usually) have 5 different cheeses in my fridge. Who needs 5??
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are intelligent, interesting, reasonably local and interested in friendship or long term relationship. I am really bad at messaging longer term (even with good friends) so it's best if you like to meet up pretty fast.