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33 F Hamden, CT

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:41am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I just moved back to the east coast after spending the past few years in San Diego. This section used to be insanely long (and infinitely more interesting), but most of it no longer made sense, so I impulsively deleted the whole thing. Sorry/you're welcome?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Saving the world. Actually working on starting a non-profit focussed on sexual assault, victim-blaming and rape culture. Oh, was that a mood killer? In that case, I - umm - give hugs and pet puppies…all day, every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- lip syncing
- eating
- dancing ridiculously
- making roughly formed clay animals
- telling stories predominantly with hand gestures, facial expressions, and sound effects
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
An odd number of people have commented on how much I smile...though I always believed that I smiled a normal amount. Unfortunately, many people misinterpret this as flirting, when just as often it is discomfort and/or awkwardness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like books, but I don't read much. However, a few I've actually enjoyed reading include: I Was Told There'd Be Cake, Stumbling on Happiness, and My Life as an Experiment.

Movies and music: Yes to both.

Food: LOVE most food, particularly sweets and breakfast food. Bacon and chocolate make me happy, separately or together.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- close friends
- sunshine
- desserts/sweets
- my phone/camera
- some sort of creative outlet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to combine my random talents and passions in a way that positively impacts other people. And why it is the the Jetson's morning routine is not yet a reality. I think we, as a society, need to refocus our technological efforts and get on that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching standup comedy, having a drink (or several), dancing at a dive bar, or snuggling in jammies and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was a nude model for art classes in college. I signed up to get over a bizarre and crippling sense of self consciousness. It worked immediately…but then I had to sit still and silently for the next 3 hours. Poor planning…clearly.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are quirky, kind and creative.
You are over 25, preferably over 30.
You are not vegan…unless you don't mind other people eating meat.
You are not an over-exerciser…unless you don't mind people who aren't.
You are not conservative or misogynistic…unless you want a karate chop to the neck.