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34 Hamden, CT Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:57pm
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is not a summary, but a random list of facts. Because I don't follow rules:

- I've discovered recently that I don't like dogs. I feel like everyone should like dogs, but most have too much nervous energy. And I have too much nervous energy. And that is far too much nervous energy to go around.
- I don't cook. I've been told I should like to cook, because I'm "creative." But I do like to eat. So, I think I would be a good match for someone who likes to cook.
- I've been told I look *much* younger than I am. Recently at a restaurant I was ID'd getting a beer…with lunch. I don't know why the lunch part makes it worse. But it does.
- I used to work as a psychotherapist and I feel an obligation to tell people that, so they will know that I can (and will) read their minds.
- I'm very liberal. Like, super liberal.
- I used to draw and paint, but haven't made much time for it recently. I think I'm going to try and force myself.
- I can be quite jumpy and am easily embarrassed.
- I am much more comfortable one-on-one or in small groups.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm originally from CT, but fled to San Diego back in 2011. I came back a year or so ago due to a health scare. (Don't worry. I'm fine.) I'm now trying to figure out how I can live a bi-costal life.

I currently work for a startup nonprofit and luckily have a pretty flexible schedule.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- lip syncing
- protesting sleep
- making halloween costumes
- guessing people's weight (Ok, I only did that once.)
- hugs
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
An odd number of people have commented on how much I smile...though I always believed that I smiled a normal amount. Unfortunately, many people misinterpret this as flirting, when just as often it is discomfort and/or awkwardness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I like books, but I don't read much. However, a few I've actually enjoyed reading include: I Was Told There'd Be Cake, Stumbling on Happiness, and My Life as an Experiment.

Movies and music: Yes to both.

Food: LOVE most food, particularly sweets and breakfast food. Bacon and chocolate make me happy, separately or together.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- close friends
- sunshine
- desserts/sweets
- my phone/camera
- some sort of creative outlet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to combine my random talents and passions in a way that positively impacts other people. And why it is the the Jetson's morning routine is not yet a reality. I think we, as a society, need to refocus our technological efforts and get on that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching standup comedy, having a drink (or several), dancing at a dive bar, or snuggling in jammies and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you send me a message that says 'hi' or 'hey,' I will not respond, 100% of the time. And I will probably hate you forever.

I mean, I get it. This whole thing is awkward. You could spend 5 min drafting a message and then the person might not reply. But if you want someone to respond, putting out a microscopic amount of effort usually helps. I mean, how is one supposed to respond to "hi" anyway?


See, it's just not good. The only other thing that might be worse is "what's up?"
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are quirky, kind and creative.
You are over 25, preferably over 30.
You are not vegan…unless you don't mind other people eating meat.
You are not an over-exerciser…unless you don't mind people who aren't.
You are not conservative or misogynistic…unless you want a karate chop to the neck.