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33 • North Bergen, NJ • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–37
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 10:51am
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
And now the dilemma, do we do funny or serious. If we do funny people say, "You should take this seriously" and if we do serious people say, "You should lighten up" so basically we're screwed.
I'm a freelancer: actor, playwright, fight choreographer, and photographer at times (recently getting a business off the ground and I started a photo blog, you should ask about it...or follow it. Yay horrible advertising!). I am just not one for the club scenes and all of that - I like quiet things and places I can actually hear people. Plus I'm not a good dancer (trust me I have references). I guess I'm looking for someone to share in all the things I do around the city and to find new things to do as well. I live just outside of it in NJ, mostly for cost reasons (I have a one bedroom and no roomies for a lot less than what people in the city and boroughs would pay for that and a short commute). I like to explore the city, usually with my camera in tow. Also enjoy hiking. Trying to get in better shape and all around healthier.
I read a lot, sometimes draw, play the piano (self taught), and am slowly learning the harmonica and irish whistle (something I picked up when out on tour years ago).
On a non work note: massages…shhhhhh! Don't tell anyone!
Books (authors might be easier): Arturo Perez-Reverte, Tolkien, Dumas, George R.R. Martin. I also read a lot of comics, scripts, and classics.
Movies: LOTR, Ghostbusters, Pan's Labyrinth, superhero movies, etc etc etc.
TV: The West Wing, Buffy, Angel, Firefly, Family Guy, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Community, (pretty much everything Whedon or Sorkin related)
Music: I listen to a lot of background music while working. This way I don't sing along. Also classical. I'm fairly indifferent to other forms of music, but enjoy my friends' stuff and the usual Beatles, Clapton, Billy Joel, Sinatra, Blues Traveller, etc.
Food: I'm pretty much good with everything except for spicy (though I am slowly working on that) and chinese (whatever replaced MSG in it HATES me and I do not take the chance again ... ever).
There are other things, but I am SOOOOOOO not posting them here.
You get this reference: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLot9bZSbgo
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