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arufuredo

42 M Carpi, Italy

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 26–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.79m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Italian (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've always tought that if someone cannot say something in a simple short sentence, then probably they don't really know what they want to say.

philosophically a stoic, I strive to live the present as it is, without too much cogitation. which is quite difficult because I like to think a lot and doesn't matter how much wine/food/diversions I feed to my brain, it never stops working.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
moving sideways instead of simply forward! don't know if it is ok or not but is what I am doing right now.
and recently growing a crop of long black hair.

okay, hairs are now quite long. w̶i̶l̶l̶ ̶c̶u̶t̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶m̶ ̶b̶e̶f̶o̶r̶e̶ ̶I̶ ̶g̶e̶t̶ ̶4̶2̶!̶
razor bald now!
Finished fixing the country house after the quake.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
using my brain, usually finding clever and innovative solutions to stupid problems!
explaining games.
not expressing judgments without at least trying to put myself in somebody else's shoes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
the eyes. and now the hair. and the fact I still look 30 something.
there's a painting aging instead of me in a cellar...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
let's limit to three each
books: Lord of the rings, Hitchhikers guide to the galaxy and Pride and prejudice
movies: When Harry met Sally, Groundhog day, Dr. Strangelove
songs: Under pressure, Enjoy the silence, Rock'n'roll suicide
food: pasta, pork meat, sushi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a good sip of raisin wine (or some homemade balsamic vinegar to sniff)
an interesting book
some social interaction (face to face, internet, good old letters, not too picky about the medium)
running or skiing
boardgaming
sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
many, many, many different subjects. and games.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing whatever I like to do. I hate to have a fixed schedule.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I created once, on a commercial dating site, a woman profile.
Even without a pic "she" received tons of proposal. Now I know you can't read them all.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to do it. Easy isn't it?

Un piccolo caveat, un poco presuntuoso lo ammetto, apposta per le compatriote: Visto quello che ho ammesso so perfettamente quante lettere può ricevere una fanciulla ogni giorno. E giustamente se ne cestinano la maggior parte, dato che sono frutto di copia e incolla a tappeto. Solo che sapendolo uno perde un poco la voglia di leggersi un profilo, provare a scrivere una cosa carina, e poi spedire il tutto sapendo che potrebbe facilmente finire nel cestino senza uno sguardo perchè è una lettera fra 20.
E' un circolo vizioso dove vale la legge che la moneta cattiva scaccia quella buona.
Adattarsi non è una opzione, e la morale è che coi profili italiani non prendo l'iniziativa.