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49 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:35am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from med school
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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There's got to be a woman who can make the world look entirely new, just by showing up. Like a gigantic contact lens. Except with earrings. And a blouse.

Are you that contact lens? With those earrings? In that blouse?

I love to read, I love to write, I love to dive. I keep fit. Been hitting the gym regularly all my life. Finally I learned how to just open the door and walk in. Workouts much better now.

I don’t do motocross. I’m not a lumberjack. Big deal. Lumberjacks are sissies. Motocross blows.

I love the sun, the moon, the grass, the trees, the sea, the sky, the mosquitos. Wait, not the mosquitos. That would be friggin' insane.

Don’t enjoy traveling, but I frequently visit airports just to have the enhanced-security experience. Then I turn around, go home and watch Anthony Bourdain. When Anthony is in reruns, I'll actually board, and I've taken off my shoes on the way to lots of places: Japan, China, Southeast Asia, Australia, Brazil, Argentina, Mexico, Belize, Costa Rica, Cuba, lots of the Caribbean, a generous helping of Europe, Turkey, Israel, Egypt, Jordan – oh, hell, you get the idea. I take off my shoes a lot.

If you think we might be meant to meet, laugh, kiss, wrestle, wayfare, shop together and make new people, well then let’s get on with it. If you might surprise, boggle, awe, cajole, inflame, amuse, hypnotize, and vivisect me, then put up a flare.

Don’t really vivisect me. That was just to keep you alert.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m a physician, was in academic medicine, now in private practice. Work is part of my life, but it’s not my life. That has more to do with loving the ones I care about, laughing as much as I can, and tearing it up, because tomorrow is promised to no one..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saving passersby who are about to step in New York dog poo. Useless but amusing information (sometimes amusing only to me, but useless to pretty much everyone). Let’s see…Devotion. Kissing. Not sweating the small stuff, unless in a cloud of volcanic ash. I also excel at self-deprecation for the thinly veiled purpose of self-promotion – though really, it’s no big deal…
The first things people usually notice about me
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My rapier wit. The flecks of hazel in my brown eyes. I also get a lot of “Hey, why are you dressed like Abraham Lincoln?”
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Nabokov, Borges, Kafka, Roth, Delillo and Cormac McCarthy. Darwin's 'The Origin of Species' (mentions me by name).

Flicks: Little Big Man, Glengarry Glen Ross, Papillon, Adaptation

Bill Maher, Larry David, Steve Wright, Louis CK, Chris Rock, Demetri Martin

Music: John Coltrane, Miles, Vijay Iyer, Bartok, Stravinsky, Philip Glass, Radiohead, White Stripes, Grizzly Bear. Cassandra Wilson's voice is a bottomless pool. I fly across oceans to hear Keith Jarrett play solo piano. Lately I just can’t stop listening to “Miley Cyrus: the Early Years”.

Could eat sushi til there's a thermometer's-worth of mercury inside me. I love sea urchin, even though you probably think it's nasty. I prefer the complex to the sweet: bleu cheese, red wine, dark beer, Will Ferrell movies – no, wait…
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a, e, i, o, u, and sometimes y
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what Katy Perry is thinking about what Justin Bieber is thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If this site does what it's supposed to, I'll be with someone I adore, after which the other details matter much less. Yeesh, that was mushy...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is the huge tattoo of Ryan Seacrest I have on the small of my back
You should message me if
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you're a bright, beautiful woman who loves to laugh, and has in addition something so intangibly wonderful that it can’t even be expressed without using sub-Saharan click language.