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arxa

31 Rotterdam, Netherlands Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 5
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Income
Status
Seeing Someone
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think comparing the questions we've answered would tell you more than anything I could write here. With some luck, it's the link up there titled "the two of us". If it says something like "Y'all got issues", perhaps that'd be even more interesting.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm still figuring that out, to be honest. I'd like to make a living either as a designer or as a translator. 'Til then, I'm happily sliding along.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out. Puzzles, VCR manuals, some strange piece of technology... which is why I'm still busy with Lego. It's pretty much the most elaborate puzzle you can think of, and the end result can be whatever you want!
People also tell me I'm good with graphics and language, and that I'm a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My soft-spokenness and length. (Almost six feet / two meters)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For starters; British TV is awesome. Stuff like QI, Black books, Mock the week and so on... I'm only going to include a couple of things of what I like. If I were to include everything, we'd be here all night.

Coraline, The Fall, Amelie, Fight Club, American Beauty, Fifth Element, the Machinist, stuff by the Coen brothers. Plenty of anime, but I missed out on some recent stuff. Any recommendations?
Anything involving Adam Sandler is definately out. (Later amendment: 'Funny people' was quite bearable.) Which goes to show that going for something out of your comfort zone may be worth it, every once in a while :)

For written material; Anything by Douglas Adams or Terry Pratchett, though this seems a prerequisite for being on this site. Sadly, I don't really have much time to spend reading. Most of what I'm reading is on tvtropes.org, nowadays.

My musical tastes are all over the map. Björk, Khachaturian, Tim Minchin, Gorillaz, Muse, Skunk Anansie, White stripes, Alanis Morissette, Queen, Alamaailman Vasarat, Radiohead, Massive Attack, Daft Punk, Aphex Twin, Yoko Kanno... Lately my playlist includes a lot of movie and videogame soundtracks.

The things I'm usually not too impressed by are country, R&B and anything labeled "hardcore".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Human contact, freedom, a sense of security, music, a soft, warm bed and some alone time every now and again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The blind spots that people have. It's amazing that someone can declare feminism 'finished', while wolf whistling at a girl only moments later. Of course, this only makes me wonder about the blind spots undoubtedly have.
I also spend a lot of time thinking about the things I create. I don't really think of myself as an 'artist' or anything like that, more like a craftsperson. I can spend a lot of time mentally working out a problem I'm stuck with, a design or a project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I enjoyed watching 'The devil wears Prada'
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Well, if you're in the neighbourhood and don't mind seeing a movie or grabbing some food and a drink.